5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict
5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict
It is an entrepreneur epidemic, “HOW”…
And there is nothing more heartbreaking as a psychic business coach than to watch women who are incredibly gifted, have the spirit of service, are talented and magical at their craft, but get so lost and stuck on “HOW” to bring their idea, message, project and business to the world. And instead of rising to the top where they belong, they stay stuck and in one place, at what they feel is their bottom. I cannot watch that happen to you or anyone else. Especially because it was when I overcame my how addiction that everything truly started to happen with so much more ease and flow in my life, business and bank account.
I wrote this blog for the HOW addicts out there, and included some aligned action steps for you to take to start overcoming this underacting addiction. I can’t wait to hear what you think. Make sure to let me know which of the 5 resonates with you the most. (As a recovering How addict myself, #3 really hits me…)
#1) You overthink everything and take little action on anything
When your wheels are spinning and you’re not getting anywhere, it’s a pretty good indicator that you are focused way too heavily on HOW and not WHY.
Fear loves to weave it’s way into your mind and get you stuck on HOW. It likes to keep you stuck overthinking, which ultimately leads you to over-doubting, finally landing you on overwhelming, which is why nothing or very little gets done.
In my experience, when you reach that place, the only thing that can get you through is having your WHY be more important than your HOW.
Aligned Action- Pick one thing you can get done that is related directly to your WHY project/idea and act! Sometimes just taking one step is all you need to jump start major momentum!
#2) You obsess and stress about irrelevant details
Don’t get me wrong, when you’re a business owner, you want to make sure that the t’s are crossed and the i’s are dotted, but not to the extreme that your project is not getting shared with the world. Don’t let your perfectionism be bigger than your passion. It will keep you on the edge of success.
Aligned Action-If you often find yourself stressing obsessing over the tiny imperfections instead of a final place of completion, set a date! And when you reach that date, no matter what, launch your project/idea! If after it is out there you still want to work on the minor details, that’s ok. You should always be re-evaluating your content, programs, projects, etc., but you should never be holding them back because it is not perfect.
#3) You over-plan and under execute
You love strategy and planning it all out! You could totally get lost day dreaming out all of the cool ideas you have and what they could become. I get it. Ideation is a great place to be, but so is implementation! These ideas you have, they did not come to you for you to overplan and under deliver. They came to you as a way to create something you desire in your life and business. Ideas come to you so that you can benefit and the world can benefit. It’s not a coincidence that you received an idea after you released a desire.
Yes, that big vision needs a strategy, but you can’t stay in dream and planning mode forever, or one day you will see someone took your unrealized dream and turned it into their reality.
And that my friend is soul crushing.
Aligned Action- Crate an idea incubator and allow yourself a total of 90 days to play and plan out your idea, (PS…you can create this with me inside of the Intuitive Business Bootcamp) After that, if it is still not launched, release it back to the Universe and let someone else receive it!
#4) You anticipate it’s not going to work
If you’re already thinking so far in advance about how it might not work chances are it might not work. How addicts love to have a back-up plan it keeps things in the air even longer. Plan B is built on one thing and one thing only – disbelief. And in my experience the core ingredient in anything launching with success is belief. Don’t let fear of failure keep your ideas in limbo please don’t have a back-up plan for your dream.
Aligned Action- Journal out what your life and business will look like when your idea DOES work out in your favor and you receive the results you want! Read through it everyday and feel it everyday. What you give attention to, manifests!
#5) Your strategy doesn’t include the Universe
I want you to think about this long and hard here for a second when was the last time something didn’t work out for you in your favor? in all of the planning did you consult with the universe? or did you just think that you knew best? be honest did you how everything into existence? because here’s what I know, the universe always knows what it’s doing. and when you can believe in that and surrender to that power and at the same time make up your mind that success is inevitable the universe can move into action to make it happen. as long as your how is not blocking it.
Aligned Action- Learn the art of radical unattachment to HOW the Universe can bring you what you want. Include your higher-self in all of your planning and strategy.
If you want to receive support, strategy and psychic insight on how to release your “how” addiction, I invite you to join me inside The Intuitive Business Bootcamp!
This bootcamp is a fun and challenging way to reignite your daily focus to-
- make a spiritual connection to your purpose
- take intentional marketing actions that yield you results
- dedicate sacred space to your mindset and confidence
- create more sales with ideal soul clients
- And so much more!!!
Here’s a snapshot at what is waiting for you each day inside the program…
- Daily Intuitive Insight on WHAT and HOW to take intentional marketing/sales action on
- Wealth consciousness mentoring to help you breakthrough income barriers
- Mindset support to maximize your manifesting powers
- Creative marketing campaign ideas to get you noticed
- Alignment laced with accountability, motivation and inspiration to crush your goals
- Channeled Programs & Passive Income Products designed to be profitable & unique to you
With almost 20 years of sales training, business development and entrepreneurial experience you are going to receive the knowledge you need to get the sales and success you desire.
I am going to motivate you; drive you and inspire you with heart and soul and,of course, my psychic insight and foresight.
The Intuitive Business Bootcamp is for spiritual women in business who want to:
- Find clarity on their ideal business and marketing model.
- Fall back in love with their business,
- Feel reignited about the direction they are headed
- Rebuild their confidence and focus.
- Take action-even though she might doubt which action to take
- And let go of HOW holding them back!