5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

It is an entrepreneur epidemic, HOW”

And there is nothing more heartbreaking as a psychic business coach than to watch women who are incredibly gifted, have the spirit of service, are talented and magical at their craft, but get so lost and stuck on “HOW” to bring their idea, message, project and business to the world. And instead of rising to the top where they belong, they stay stuck and in one place, at what they feel is their bottom. I cannot watch that happen to you or anyone else. Especially because it was when I overcame my how addiction that everything truly started to happen with so much more ease and flow in my life, business and bank account.

I wrote this blog for the HOW addicts out there, and included some aligned action steps for you to take to start overcoming this underacting addiction. I can’t wait to hear what you think. Make sure to let me know which of the 5 resonates with you the most. (As a recovering How addict myself, #3 really hits me…)

#1) You overthink everything and take little action on anything

When your wheels are spinning and you’re not getting anywhere, it’s a pretty good indicator that you are focused way too heavily on HOW and not WHY.

Fear loves to weave it’s way into your mind and get you stuck on HOW. It likes to keep you stuck overthinking, which ultimately leads you to over-doubting, finally landing you on overwhelming, which is why nothing or very little gets done.

In my experience, when you reach that place, the only thing that can get you through is having your WHY be more important than your HOW. 

Aligned Action- Pick one thing you can get done that is related directly to your WHY project/idea and act! Sometimes just taking one step is all you need to jump start major momentum!

#2) You obsess and stress about irrelevant details

Don’t get me wrong, when you’re a business owner, you want to make sure that the t’s are crossed and the i’s are dotted, but not to the extreme that your project is not getting shared with the world. Don’t let your perfectionism be bigger than your passion. It will keep you on the edge of success. 

Aligned Action-If you often find yourself stressing obsessing over the tiny imperfections instead of a final place of completion, set a date! And when you reach that date, no matter what, launch your project/idea! If after it is out there you still want to work on the minor details, that’s ok. You should always be re-evaluating your content, programs, projects, etc., but you should never be holding them back because it is not perfect.

#3) You over-plan and under execute

You love strategy and planning it all out! You could totally get lost  day dreaming out all of the cool ideas you have and what they could become. I get it. Ideation is a great place to be, but so is implementation! These ideas you have, they did not come to you for you to overplan and under deliver. They came to you as a way to create something you desire in your life and business. Ideas come to you so that you can benefit and the world can benefit. It’s not a coincidence that you received an idea after you released a desire.

Yes, that big vision needs a strategy, but you can’t stay in dream and planning mode forever, or one day you will see someone took your unrealized dream and turned it into their reality.

And that my friend is soul crushing.

Aligned Action- Crate an idea incubator and allow yourself a total of 90 days to play and plan out your idea, (PS…you can create this with me inside of the Intuitive Business Bootcamp) After that, if it is still not launched, release it back to the Universe and let someone else receive it!

#4) You anticipate it’s not going to work

If you’re already thinking so far in advance about how it might not work chances are it might not work. How addicts love to have a back-up plan it keeps things in the air even longer. Plan B is built on one thing and one thing only – disbelief. And in my experience the core ingredient in anything launching with success is belief. Don’t let fear of failure keep your ideas in limbo please don’t have a back-up plan for your dream.

Aligned Action- Journal out what your life and business will look like when your idea DOES work out in your favor and you receive the results you want! Read through it everyday and feel it everyday. What you give attention to, manifests!

#5) Your strategy doesn’t include the Universe

I want you to think about this long and hard here for a second when was the last time something didn’t work out for you in your favor? in all of the planning did you consult with the universe? or did you just think that you knew best? be honest did you how everything into existence? because here’s what I know, the universe always knows what it’s doing. and when you can believe in that and surrender to that power and at the same time make up your mind that success is inevitable the universe can move into action to make it happen. as long as your how is not blocking it.

Aligned Action- Learn the art of radical unattachment to HOW the Universe can bring you what you want. Include your higher-self in all of your planning and strategy. 

 

If you want to receive support, strategy and psychic insight on how to release your “how” addiction, I invite you to join me inside The Intuitive Business Bootcamp!

This bootcamp is a fun and challenging way to reignite your daily focus to-

  • make a spiritual connection to your purpose
  • take intentional marketing actions that yield you results
  • dedicate sacred space to your mindset and confidence
  • create more sales with ideal soul clients
  • And so much more!!!

Here’s a snapshot at what is waiting for you each day inside the program…

  • Daily Intuitive Insight on WHAT and HOW to take intentional marketing/sales action on
  • Wealth consciousness mentoring to help you breakthrough income barriers
  • Mindset support to maximize your manifesting powers
  • Creative marketing campaign ideas to get you noticed 
  • Alignment laced with accountability, motivation and inspiration to crush your goals
  • Channeled Programs & Passive Income Products designed to be profitable & unique to you

With almost 20 years of sales training, business development and entrepreneurial experience you are going to receive the knowledge you need to get the sales and success you desire.

I am going to motivate you; drive you and inspire you with heart and soul and,of course, my psychic insight and foresight.

The Intuitive Business Bootcamp is for spiritual women in business who want to:

  • Find clarity on their ideal business and marketing model.
  • Fall back in love with their business, 
  • Feel reignited about the direction they are headed 
  • Rebuild their confidence and focus.
  • Take action-even though she might doubt which action to take
  • And let go of HOW holding them back!

 

How I Am Having My Best Month Ever

It comes down to one simple word. Change.
I am setting some of the biggest goals I have ever had for myself.
But here’s what I am NOT doing >>> the same things I did last month, the month before that and the month before that.
If I am going to achieve and receive something I have never had before, I know I am going to have to do things and take actions in ways I haven’t done before. And that means CHANGE!
For most people, change evokes fear. The invasive question “what if” kicks into high gear and before you know it, you have talked yourself out of doing things differently and just staying with what works and what is known.
How about this time you try talking yourself INTO IT!?!?
The problem is that to your mind: 
change = unknown. 
And unknown = unsafe.
As soon as something is unsafe to your mind, it is programmed to shut that shit down! You will almost immediately hear back talk from your mind! So please know when this happens my love, it is not just you!
Whenever you try to step outside of your “safety zone” your mind will instantly start telling you why this is a bad idea, why it won’t work for you and how this could never be possible, so just sit here, feel bad and be quiet.
Sound familiar?
Well I am here to tell you, that does not serve you and that does not allow you to step into being the most magnificent version of you!
And that is who you are here to be.
Here’s a simple process I use to start calming my mind and easing the anxiety of change:
  1. Get clear on the fear. What are the actual words that are running through your mind? What are the “shut down” statements you hear yourself saying to yourself? Those are limiting beliefs. And we want to become very aware of them. Because once you become aware, you are in your power position to shift it!
  2. Rewrite the fear with faith. Each time one of these limiting beliefs shows it’s ugly self, take the time to write it down! On the line below it, I want you to turn that BS belief into an expansive belief! Write out a powerful statement that overrides the fear-based belief! Write it with intent and conviction that this is your new truth! And totally FEEL it and own it!
  3. Activating Action. Take some kind of action that is aligned with your NEW belief. No matter how small the action, when you do it from your new power position you start activating the mind to see IT IS SAFE for you to get out of your safety zone and into your success zone!
It might seem like a lot of work, monitoring your thoughts, writing them out and then taking action from that new empowered place.
But doesn’t staying stuck and not realizing your dreams feel more exhausting?
I would love to hear about your dreams and goals for this month!
Just hit reply and let me know.
How Woo Are You?

How Woo Are You?

So many times people ask me my story about how I knew I was psychic and when did I know that I had these gifts? People are fascinated with understanding the spiritual realm, and are craving the connection to others that are interested in the same topics! Spirituality, metaphysical, Woo-Woo, call it what you want! I find it all fascinating and created a business out of teaching others how to tap into their gifts! So many people asked for a group program or course of some type helping to connect people to their intuitive abilities!
So… I have created my first ever group program Get Psychic!
This course is designed for women who are looking to open and expand their intuitive gifts, talents, and abilities!
Are you looking to connect with other women in a sisterhood that support growing your gifts and gives you permission in a safe place to explore all things woo and all things spiritual?
I would love to have you join me you can take a peek at all of the details in this page here: Get Psychic!

But you better be quick! The doors close Saturday April 24th!

More questions? Feel free to send me an email and I am happy to talk to you about this new course, or post your questions below!