Breaking Free from Decision Fatigue

Breaking Free from Decision Fatigue

In a world that often demands women to operate in both their personal and professional lives with unwavering strength, the epidemic of decision fatigue has become a silent struggle. The constant need to tap into our masculine energy for day-to-day, short-term, and long-term decisions, be it in family matters or business endeavors, can be overwhelming.

After working with thousands of women, these are the 7 common signs I see as a life and business coach-

  1. Procrastination: Decision fatigue can manifest as procrastination, where even seemingly simple choices become daunting. This delay in decision-making can hinder progress and create a sense of stagnation in both personal and business matters, especially for a spiritual woman who is motivated by energy and follows her intuition.
  2. Overthinking: Constantly mulling over decisions, especially minor ones, is a clear sign of decision fatigue. This mental loop can drain energy and focus, preventing you from fully engaging in your spiritual and entrepreneurial pursuits, not to mention deflate your confidence.
  3. Impaired Judgment: As decision fatigue sets in, the quality of decision-making may decline. This could lead to poor choices, whether in business strategies, spiritual practices, or personal life, potentially impacting your overall well-being. In fact, I recently experienced this myself when I made a bad judgment call in messenger and got scammed out of $400 👎
  4. Increased Stress and Anxiety: The weight of unresolved decisions, and decision overload, can contribute to heightened stress and anxiety levels. For a spiritual woman in business, this may interfere with keeping up on your own spiritual practices, like meditation or journaling, not taking inspired action, lack of sales and marketing activities and other areas of needed focus in her day to day. Not to mention it can literally cause so many physical symptoms of anxiety like heart palpitations, insomnia, headaches and full on panic attacks.
  5. Physical Fatigue: Decision fatigue doesn’t only affect the mind; it can manifest physically, beyond stress and anxiety symptoms, leading to exhaustion and total burnout. This physical (and emotional) weariness can limit a woman’s ability to fully bring her best self to her family, friends, business and most importantly, herself. 
  6. Reduced Creativity: Decision fatigue is the quickest way to cripple creativity. As a spiritual woman in business you may find it challenging to tap into your innovative and intuitive gifts, impacting your ability to bring fresh ideas and perspectives to your entrepreneurial pursuits.
  7. Strained Relationships: The impact of decision fatigue often has a huge impact on our  personal relationships. I know this all too well, I personally attribute this as a key factor in my divorce. You may experience strained personal connections due to the mental and emotional toll of constant decision-making, affecting your ability to even communicate. Sometimes even replying to a simple text message can feel overwhelming and cause a “shut down“.

Being a spiritual woman in business requires the right flow of the masculine and feminine energies. Decision fatigue can disrupt this flow, making it crucial to recognize these signs.

This may involve prioritizing decisions, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support to maintain a healthy and sustainable lifestyle.

The good news is that there’s a transformative way to overcome decision fatigue, and it begins with the power of clarity. 

This seven-step journey to regain control and step into a space where decisions become doorways to possibilities and new realities.

The Clarity Formula: A Seven-Step Path to Serene

C – Center Yourself

Begin by centering yourself amidst the chaos. Whether it’s the demands of daily life or the intricacies of business decisions, take a moment to breathe. Ground yourself in the present and reconnect with your inner wisdom. A calm mind is the foundation for sound decision-making. And you can overcome decision fatigue one decision at a time.

L – List Your Priorities

Create a simple list of your highest priorities for the day. Identify what truly matters to you in both your life and business. I don’t let my list get bigger than a post it note. This step is crucial in understanding where to direct your energy and focus. Let your priorities guide your decisions.

A – Assess Your Options

With priorities in mind, assess the options available to you. Break down decisions into manageable choices. By considering alternatives, you empower yourself with a broader perspective, making it easier to discern the most aligned path.

R – Reflect on Values

Reflect on your core values. Your decisions should align with these values to create a serene and clear life and business. When your choices resonate with what truly matters to you, your why, the mental fatigue associated with decision-making diminishes.

 I – Integrate Self-Care

The most important question and decision you can make is asking yourself “what do I need in this moment?” And then, be brave enough to give it to yourself. Integrate self-care into your decision-making process. Remember that your well-being is paramount. Nurture your mind, body, and spirit, ensuring you’re in the best possible state to tackle life and business complexities.

T – Trust Your Intuition

Trust your intuition. Your inner-knowing, it is your greatest gift and your greatest weapon to fend off decision fatigue. Your intuition knows the right direction before your logical mind catches up. Embrace the wisdom within, allowing it to guide your decisions with a sense of confidence and assurance.

Y – Yield and Evolve

Be willing to yield and evolve. Recognize that decisions aren’t set in stone. Life and business are dynamic, and the ability to adapt is a strength. Embrace change as an opportunity for growth and true transformation.

As we navigate the journey to overcome decision fatigue, I invite you to share your experiences with me. 

What aspect of decision fatigue resonates most with you? Is it the day-to-day choices, short-term decisions, or perhaps the complexities within your family or business? 

Your insights are not only valuable to you but can also inspire others on their path to clarity.

Remember, you should never feel stuck in making a decision. Instead, view decisions as the keys unlocking doorways to endless possibilities and new realities. 

By embracing the Clarity Formula, you reclaim your power and shape a life and business that aligns with your truest self.

Share your thoughts in the comments below. Your story may be the catalyst for someone else’s breakthrough. 

Here’s to clarity, empowerment, and the limitless potential within you! 

Ready to work together to bring more clarity into your life & business? Here’s how:

The Clarity Collective – A 12 month sales and business mentorship for spiritual women on a business journey who want more flow of confidence, clients and cash

🔮Clarity Coaching- book a 15 minute session and let’s get you clear on your highest vision and next steps in life & business.

Unveiling the Extraordinary World of Life & Business – My Interview with Mystic Mag

Unveiling the Extraordinary World of Life & Business – My Interview with Mystic Mag

Recently I had the pleasure of speaking with Katarina Todorovic of Mystic Mag to talk about Life & Business. Read it below!

In a world where the boundaries between the seen and the unseen blur, there exists a fascinating realm where intuition and spiritual guidance intertwine with the practicality of everyday life and business. At the forefront of this extraordinary domain stands Amber Annette, a renowned Life & Business Psychic Medium, whose unique abilities have captivated the attention of countless individuals seeking enlightenment and guidance. Amber Annette is not your ordinary psychic. With an uncanny ability to connect with the ethereal plane, she transcends the limits of conventional wisdom, offering profound insights that empower individuals and transform businesses. With her innate clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairsentience, Amber possesses a rare gift that allows her to bridge the gap between the physical and spiritual realms, unlocking a wealth of knowledge and wisdom that lies beyond the ordinary senses. Mystic Mag delves into the remarkable world of Life & Business Psychic Mediumship, exploring the profound impact that Amber Annette has had on the lives of countless individuals and the businesses she has transformed. Prepare to embark on a journey that transcends the ordinary as we uncover the extraordinary talents of Amber Annette, a true luminary in the realm of psychic guidance and spiritual empowerment.

Click here to read the entire interview. 

5 ways to gain clarity on your business purpose

5 ways to gain clarity on your business purpose


I got super deep into my coffee with the Universe this morning about the difference between our souls, purpose, and our businesses purpose and here is what I channeled:

When it comes to running a business, it can be easy to get caught up in the day-to-day operations and lose sight of our ultimate goals, purpose and the bigger “why”. 

Let’s break it down. Your soul’s purpose is the reason you were put on this earth, it’s why you came here, (and spoiler alert, it definitely wasn’t just for one purpose). 

On the other hand, your business purpose is the reason your business exists, it’s why you decided to create it and to step into a place of service.

While they may overlap, (and most likely if you’re a spiritual woman in business, they do), the 2 are not always the same thing. 

In really feeling into the differences, I broke down my 5 ways that allow me to gain clarity on my business purpose and align it with my soul’s purpose, and I want to share it with you.

  1. Journaling

    One way to gain clarity on your business purpose is to journal about your thoughts, feelings and to document the journey! This allows me to look back and understand myself and my cycles of the elements in such a clear way! I also write down my goals, values, and what I intend to manifest through my business, and what I need the Universe to manifest on my behalf. This can help you gain a better understanding of your motivations and the things that are most important to you. 
    1. Creative Visualizations

    Another way to gain clarity is to engage in creative visualizations. Imagine your business as you want it to be and what it would feel like to receive your intentions. This can help you focus on the positive aspects of your business and develop a clearer picture of what you want to achieve time and time again.

    1. Asking Yourself What You Don’t Want

    In addition to focusing on what you do want, it’s also helpful to consider what you don’t want in your business. Ask yourself what you don’t want to be doing and what you don’t want to experience. This can help you gain clarity on what you truly want and avoid getting sidetracked. (This could maybe be #1!)

    1. Make a List of What Comes Naturally to You

    Another way to gain clarity on your business purpose is to make a list of the things that come naturally to you. What do you enjoy doing and what do you find effortless? What do people ask you for help with over and over? These are the things that you are naturally good at and that you should focus on in your business. This is also known as your zone of genius!

    1. Manifesting Mind Map

    Finally, consider creating a manifesting mind map. This is a visual representation of your desires and the steps you need to take to achieve them. This can help you gain a clearer understanding of what you want to manifest and what values and purpose you need to get there. (I hosted a powerful workshop on this you can check out here)

Understanding the difference between your soul’s purpose and your business purpose is essential to creating a fulfilling and successful business. It can also keep your head “out of the weeds” when things feel tough or stuck!

By journaling, engaging in creative visualizations, asking yourself what you don’t want, making a list of what comes naturally to you, and creating a manifesting mind map, you can gain clarity on your business purpose and align it with your soul’s purpose, ultimately leading you to the sales and serving I know you’re here for!

Which of the 5 are you most called to dive in to?

Hit comment and share with me below 🔮

5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

It is an entrepreneur epidemic, HOW”

And there is nothing more heartbreaking as a psychic business coach than to watch women who are incredibly gifted, have the spirit of service, are talented and magical at their craft, but get so lost and stuck on “HOW” to bring their idea, message, project and business to the world. And instead of rising to the top where they belong, they stay stuck and in one place, at what they feel is their bottom. I cannot watch that happen to you or anyone else. Especially because it was when I overcame my how addiction that everything truly started to happen with so much more ease and flow in my life, business and bank account.

I wrote this blog for the HOW addicts out there, and included some aligned action steps for you to take to start overcoming this underacting addiction. I can’t wait to hear what you think. Make sure to let me know which of the 5 resonates with you the most. (As a recovering How addict myself, #3 really hits me…)

#1) You overthink everything and take little action on anything

When your wheels are spinning and you’re not getting anywhere, it’s a pretty good indicator that you are focused way too heavily on HOW and not WHY.

Fear loves to weave it’s way into your mind and get you stuck on HOW. It likes to keep you stuck overthinking, which ultimately leads you to over-doubting, finally landing you on overwhelming, which is why nothing or very little gets done.

In my experience, when you reach that place, the only thing that can get you through is having your WHY be more important than your HOW. 

Aligned Action- Pick one thing you can get done that is related directly to your WHY project/idea and act! Sometimes just taking one step is all you need to jump start major momentum!

#2) You obsess and stress about irrelevant details

Don’t get me wrong, when you’re a business owner, you want to make sure that the t’s are crossed and the i’s are dotted, but not to the extreme that your project is not getting shared with the world. Don’t let your perfectionism be bigger than your passion. It will keep you on the edge of success. 

Aligned Action-If you often find yourself stressing obsessing over the tiny imperfections instead of a final place of completion, set a date! And when you reach that date, no matter what, launch your project/idea! If after it is out there you still want to work on the minor details, that’s ok. You should always be re-evaluating your content, programs, projects, etc., but you should never be holding them back because it is not perfect.

#3) You over-plan and under execute

You love strategy and planning it all out! You could totally get lost  day dreaming out all of the cool ideas you have and what they could become. I get it. Ideation is a great place to be, but so is implementation! These ideas you have, they did not come to you for you to overplan and under deliver. They came to you as a way to create something you desire in your life and business. Ideas come to you so that you can benefit and the world can benefit. It’s not a coincidence that you received an idea after you released a desire.

Yes, that big vision needs a strategy, but you can’t stay in dream and planning mode forever, or one day you will see someone took your unrealized dream and turned it into their reality.

And that my friend is soul crushing.

Aligned Action- Crate an idea incubator and allow yourself a total of 90 days to play and plan out your idea, (PS…you can create this with me inside of the Intuitive Business Bootcamp) After that, if it is still not launched, release it back to the Universe and let someone else receive it!

#4) You anticipate it’s not going to work

If you’re already thinking so far in advance about how it might not work chances are it might not work. How addicts love to have a back-up plan it keeps things in the air even longer. Plan B is built on one thing and one thing only – disbelief. And in my experience the core ingredient in anything launching with success is belief. Don’t let fear of failure keep your ideas in limbo please don’t have a back-up plan for your dream.

Aligned Action- Journal out what your life and business will look like when your idea DOES work out in your favor and you receive the results you want! Read through it everyday and feel it everyday. What you give attention to, manifests!

#5) Your strategy doesn’t include the Universe

I want you to think about this long and hard here for a second when was the last time something didn’t work out for you in your favor? in all of the planning did you consult with the universe? or did you just think that you knew best? be honest did you how everything into existence? because here’s what I know, the universe always knows what it’s doing. and when you can believe in that and surrender to that power and at the same time make up your mind that success is inevitable the universe can move into action to make it happen. as long as your how is not blocking it.

Aligned Action- Learn the art of radical unattachment to HOW the Universe can bring you what you want. Include your higher-self in all of your planning and strategy. 


If you want to receive support, strategy and psychic insight on how to release your “how” addiction, I invite you to join me inside The Intuitive Business Bootcamp!

This bootcamp is a fun and challenging way to reignite your daily focus to-

  • make a spiritual connection to your purpose
  • take intentional marketing actions that yield you results
  • dedicate sacred space to your mindset and confidence
  • create more sales with ideal soul clients
  • And so much more!!!

Here’s a snapshot at what is waiting for you each day inside the program…

  • Daily Intuitive Insight on WHAT and HOW to take intentional marketing/sales action on
  • Wealth consciousness mentoring to help you breakthrough income barriers
  • Mindset support to maximize your manifesting powers
  • Creative marketing campaign ideas to get you noticed 
  • Alignment laced with accountability, motivation and inspiration to crush your goals
  • Channeled Programs & Passive Income Products designed to be profitable & unique to you

With almost 20 years of sales training, business development and entrepreneurial experience you are going to receive the knowledge you need to get the sales and success you desire.

I am going to motivate you; drive you and inspire you with heart and soul and,of course, my psychic insight and foresight.

The Intuitive Business Bootcamp is for spiritual women in business who want to:

  • Find clarity on their ideal business and marketing model.
  • Fall back in love with their business, 
  • Feel reignited about the direction they are headed 
  • Rebuild their confidence and focus.
  • Take action-even though she might doubt which action to take
  • And let go of HOW holding them back!


My Top 10 Ways I Became a 6 Figure Psychic…

My Top 10 Ways I Became a 6 Figure Psychic…

Never in a million years would I have thought I could create a 6 figure income as a psychic business coach. 

It honestly sometimes feels like a dream and yet, I created it. I set out with this in mind and I did it. I don’t say that to trigger you or to boast, I say it because I want you to know that if it is possible for me to create this, it is possible for you to become and create whatever you want too! These are my top 10 reflections on HOW I was able to create AND maintain a 6 Figure business as a psychic for over 5 years.

How I did it:

    1. I didn’t have a plan B. Actually, I didn’t have a plan at all. But what I did have was the strongest intuitive sense and ultimate knowing that I needed to be in my business FULL TIME. I knew this is what I was meant for, what I came here for. So I did it. I gave my notice to my corporate career of 15 years and I have never looked back in 5 years. I have not one time looked up jobs openings, or doubted my business path. Make business success your only option! 
    2. I ignored the facts. It might seem irresponsible, but I never, or very rarely, looked at what “is”. I stay locked in to my end result, my big desire and I get there by following my inner compass. I don’t watch the news, balance my checkbook, or read the paper. When it comes to success, I only focus on the future I desire and the present moment of how I want to feel. When you start to look at your reality and it’s not what you want, things can spiral downward quickly. Stay locked in on your desired reality, focusing on the end result. When in doubt, go to your dream board, not the drawing board.
    3. I followed my intuition. This one can get tricky. Especially when you are following gurus and experts who make big bucks and seem to have everything figured out about success. But here’s the deal, your intuition trumps them. I promise. If something doesn’t feel right for you, trust that instinct. Just because it worked for someone else, doesn’t mean you have to do it or should do it! Make decisions that make you happy in your business. Even if it goes against your guru.
    4. Collaborating. I cannot count how many women I have reached out to and connected with, had virtual coffee, etc. I got to know some many amazing people in this industry! It only took 30 minutes, but I made friends and genuine connections that are priceless! So many of those women I have gone off to do collaboration projects with, and those leading to new sales opportunities. Don’t ever underestimate the power of an hour, a good cup of coffee and a new connection! Always say YES!
    5. Free sessions. I am not kidding you, in my first year of business I had 214 free calls. WOW. I met with women and offered them complementary readings to tap in and give them messages for their life and business. This was one of the best decisions I made! Not only did I love seeing my calendar full of these calls, but it taught me so much about how to use my gift, how to connect, how to market and so much more! This gave me major momentum!
    6. Educating myself everyday. I love learning. I seriously have like 45 books in queue on my Kindle, I’m reading about 10 and have a list of about 20 that I want to get from an actual bookstore. I am always watching, observing and listening. I subscribe to podcasts, invest in courses, coaches, consultants, etc. Everyday I want to learn something new. The key, only learn about things that fire you up! Don’t tackle a topic just because you think you “need to know it”. Lame. Dive into the topics that you want to lean into. You’re feeling curious for a reason. Dig deeper my friend, there’s something waiting for you in the lesson. 
    7. I have non-negotiables. I meditate every damn day. I have Coffee with the Universe every damn day. I get clarity on how I want to feel every damn day. I fall in love with my business, you get it… Create your own routine and ritual that is non-negotiable. You have to. When you put yourself first, your mindset and your vibeset, you are then in the BEST place possible to give much better attention, time and guidance to everyone else around you, including yourself. Don’t cut yourself, your self-care and your soul-care out of your to do list anymore. Promise?
    8. Asking my family to support me emotionally. I know how fortunate I am to have an amazing support system. My husband adores me, he’s my biggest fan. It makes a huge difference in the way I have been able to be devoted and somewhat addicted to my business and personal growth. My kids get it, they know how happy I am and see what our life is like now that I am following and creating my dream everyday. They support me. They think it’s super cool. If I didn’t have that support, I couldn’t do it. But I have it because I ask for it. So let your family know how important your business success is to you. Be raw open and vulnerable about how much you want it! Chances are they will help you. People generally want to help!
    9. Not caring about what others are saying and doing. My husband and I were fishing with our 2 younger boys and they were bickering about each others bobber in the water, not paying attention to their own poles, their own space, etc. It was getting annoying. My husband said “Hey you two… Watch your own bobber!” and it totally stuck with me! Because that’s what it has to be like in business. Especially the online space. Pay attention to your own business, message and mission! You have to be able to say “who cares” and go after what you want. You can’t let other people’s opinions keep you from moving forward. You can’t let your fear be bigger than your passion! Watch your own bobber…
    10. Inspired content creation. Don’t put out content because you “have to”. Don’t write half ass blogs, boring posts or cookie cutter emails just because you are supposed to. I am here to tell you, when you act from inspiration on your creative ideas, that is when the magic happens! When it comes to you so strong you have to pull over to write it down or jump out of the shower because the download is coming in so good and juicy, that’s when you hit send! Put your message out into the world when you are fired up and ready to take on the world!


And hey, at the end the end of the day, you have to find your own personal set of blueprints for success. And that comes from doing YOU first. Listening to you first. And daring to do what you love vs. what everyone else says you should do.

I would love to help you create your own personal success blueprints! If you are wanting to learn how to create your own business from your intuition and from following your own path…

Click here to book a connection call, and let’s create some business magic!

Already have a business but feeling stuck or plateaued? Share with me what’s not working, I would love to help!

5 Ways to Receive Creative Ideas Consistently

5 Ways to Receive Creative Ideas Consistently

Anyone who has ever experienced an “ah-ha” moment, a “million dollar” idea or “divine download” knows that it is one of the most addictive experiences you can ever have as an entrepreneur!
You grow to crave that connection and look forward to the insight that comes in such mysterious ways.
I am totally being honest when I say that the creative ideation process is one of my most favorite experiences I have ever experienced!
There is nothing more thrilling to me than a brilliant idea that makes that light bulb in my soul, (and above my head), spark up!

Everything that has ever come into existence comes from one of those “spark starters”, and they all come from the Universe and are ready to rendezvous with us at any given point!


Here are the top 5 ways to connect with the Universe to get creative ideas consistently:

  1. Take it when it comes, morning, noon or night. Or in my case, 3 am. Inspiration is not always convenient. Be ready to jot down the idea in a bathroom, laundry room, car, etc. You never know when inspiration will hit, so be prepared! Big mistake- to think you will remember the idea later. You won’t.
  2. Express a moment of gratitude for the new ideas as they come in. Before jumping in, take a moment to feel truly grateful for the creativity that is flowing your way! Thank the Universe for the insight! This makes it much easier for more ideas to be delivered to you on a consistent basis.
  3. Play with the idea. Enjoy it. Bask in it. Dream up crazy and amazing ideas on what it can become and grow into. Don’t allow fear, doubts or HOW to show up and crush your ideation. Enjoy the dance, let the idea lead.
  4. Don’t make a To Do List! Let it come from a place of inspiration! Yes, we absolutely need routine and structure for our business. You have to be grounded in content creation, but keep yourself open as a creative channel for ideas to come in as many ways as possible! Open to the Universe, grounded to the Business…
  5. Let your intuition lead you to inspired ideas and to inspired action steps to take that are for your content’s highest good! When you are clear and in alignment, the creative ideas will start to flow to you! These inspired ideas come from the Universe and they come from being in flow and in a high vibratory state!

Always remember, no matter what the subject is, when you set an intention, the Universe hears that command. So set positive intentions that state your desires about being a creative content producer! Here is a positive affirmation to get you started:

Creative Affirmation:
I am always open and ready for divine inspiration and ideation.

Now…Go receive a download and share it with the world!!!