5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

5 Signs You Are a HOW Addict

It is an entrepreneur epidemic, HOW”

And there is nothing more heartbreaking as a psychic business coach than to watch women who are incredibly gifted, have the spirit of service, are talented and magical at their craft, but get so lost and stuck on “HOW” to bring their idea, message, project and business to the world. And instead of rising to the top where they belong, they stay stuck and in one place, at what they feel is their bottom. I cannot watch that happen to you or anyone else. Especially because it was when I overcame my how addiction that everything truly started to happen with so much more ease and flow in my life, business and bank account.

I wrote this blog for the HOW addicts out there, and included some aligned action steps for you to take to start overcoming this underacting addiction. I can’t wait to hear what you think. Make sure to let me know which of the 5 resonates with you the most. (As a recovering How addict myself, #3 really hits me…)

#1) You overthink everything and take little action on anything

When your wheels are spinning and you’re not getting anywhere, it’s a pretty good indicator that you are focused way too heavily on HOW and not WHY.

Fear loves to weave it’s way into your mind and get you stuck on HOW. It likes to keep you stuck overthinking, which ultimately leads you to over-doubting, finally landing you on overwhelming, which is why nothing or very little gets done.

In my experience, when you reach that place, the only thing that can get you through is having your WHY be more important than your HOW. 

Aligned Action- Pick one thing you can get done that is related directly to your WHY project/idea and act! Sometimes just taking one step is all you need to jump start major momentum!

#2) You obsess and stress about irrelevant details

Don’t get me wrong, when you’re a business owner, you want to make sure that the t’s are crossed and the i’s are dotted, but not to the extreme that your project is not getting shared with the world. Don’t let your perfectionism be bigger than your passion. It will keep you on the edge of success. 

Aligned Action-If you often find yourself stressing obsessing over the tiny imperfections instead of a final place of completion, set a date! And when you reach that date, no matter what, launch your project/idea! If after it is out there you still want to work on the minor details, that’s ok. You should always be re-evaluating your content, programs, projects, etc., but you should never be holding them back because it is not perfect.

#3) You over-plan and under execute

You love strategy and planning it all out! You could totally get lost  day dreaming out all of the cool ideas you have and what they could become. I get it. Ideation is a great place to be, but so is implementation! These ideas you have, they did not come to you for you to overplan and under deliver. They came to you as a way to create something you desire in your life and business. Ideas come to you so that you can benefit and the world can benefit. It’s not a coincidence that you received an idea after you released a desire.

Yes, that big vision needs a strategy, but you can’t stay in dream and planning mode forever, or one day you will see someone took your unrealized dream and turned it into their reality.

And that my friend is soul crushing.

Aligned Action- Crate an idea incubator and allow yourself a total of 90 days to play and plan out your idea, (PS…you can create this with me inside of the Intuitive Business Bootcamp) After that, if it is still not launched, release it back to the Universe and let someone else receive it!

#4) You anticipate it’s not going to work

If you’re already thinking so far in advance about how it might not work chances are it might not work. How addicts love to have a back-up plan it keeps things in the air even longer. Plan B is built on one thing and one thing only – disbelief. And in my experience the core ingredient in anything launching with success is belief. Don’t let fear of failure keep your ideas in limbo please don’t have a back-up plan for your dream.

Aligned Action- Journal out what your life and business will look like when your idea DOES work out in your favor and you receive the results you want! Read through it everyday and feel it everyday. What you give attention to, manifests!

#5) Your strategy doesn’t include the Universe

I want you to think about this long and hard here for a second when was the last time something didn’t work out for you in your favor? in all of the planning did you consult with the universe? or did you just think that you knew best? be honest did you how everything into existence? because here’s what I know, the universe always knows what it’s doing. and when you can believe in that and surrender to that power and at the same time make up your mind that success is inevitable the universe can move into action to make it happen. as long as your how is not blocking it.

Aligned Action- Learn the art of radical unattachment to HOW the Universe can bring you what you want. Include your higher-self in all of your planning and strategy. 

 

If you want to receive support, strategy and psychic insight on how to release your “how” addiction, I invite you to join me inside The Intuitive Business Bootcamp!

This bootcamp is a fun and challenging way to reignite your daily focus to-

  • make a spiritual connection to your purpose
  • take intentional marketing actions that yield you results
  • dedicate sacred space to your mindset and confidence
  • create more sales with ideal soul clients
  • And so much more!!!

Here’s a snapshot at what is waiting for you each day inside the program…

  • Daily Intuitive Insight on WHAT and HOW to take intentional marketing/sales action on
  • Wealth consciousness mentoring to help you breakthrough income barriers
  • Mindset support to maximize your manifesting powers
  • Creative marketing campaign ideas to get you noticed 
  • Alignment laced with accountability, motivation and inspiration to crush your goals
  • Channeled Programs & Passive Income Products designed to be profitable & unique to you

With almost 20 years of sales training, business development and entrepreneurial experience you are going to receive the knowledge you need to get the sales and success you desire.

I am going to motivate you; drive you and inspire you with heart and soul and,of course, my psychic insight and foresight.

The Intuitive Business Bootcamp is for spiritual women in business who want to:

  • Find clarity on their ideal business and marketing model.
  • Fall back in love with their business, 
  • Feel reignited about the direction they are headed 
  • Rebuild their confidence and focus.
  • Take action-even though she might doubt which action to take
  • And let go of HOW holding them back!

 

My Top 10 Ways I Became a 6 Figure Psychic…

My Top 10 Ways I Became a 6 Figure Psychic…

Never in a million years would I have thought I could create a 6 figure income as a psychic business coach. 

It honestly sometimes feels like a dream and yet, I created it. I set out with this in mind and I did it. I don’t say that to trigger you or to boast, I say it because I want you to know that if it is possible for me to create this, it is possible for you to become and create whatever you want too! These are my top 10 reflections on HOW I was able to create AND maintain a 6 Figure business as a psychic for over 5 years.

How I did it:

    1. I didn’t have a plan B. Actually, I didn’t have a plan at all. But what I did have was the strongest intuitive sense and ultimate knowing that I needed to be in my business FULL TIME. I knew this is what I was meant for, what I came here for. So I did it. I gave my notice to my corporate career of 15 years and I have never looked back in 5 years. I have not one time looked up jobs openings, or doubted my business path. Make business success your only option! 
    2. I ignored the facts. It might seem irresponsible, but I never, or very rarely, looked at what “is”. I stay locked in to my end result, my big desire and I get there by following my inner compass. I don’t watch the news, balance my checkbook, or read the paper. When it comes to success, I only focus on the future I desire and the present moment of how I want to feel. When you start to look at your reality and it’s not what you want, things can spiral downward quickly. Stay locked in on your desired reality, focusing on the end result. When in doubt, go to your dream board, not the drawing board.
    3. I followed my intuition. This one can get tricky. Especially when you are following gurus and experts who make big bucks and seem to have everything figured out about success. But here’s the deal, your intuition trumps them. I promise. If something doesn’t feel right for you, trust that instinct. Just because it worked for someone else, doesn’t mean you have to do it or should do it! Make decisions that make you happy in your business. Even if it goes against your guru.
    4. Collaborating. I cannot count how many women I have reached out to and connected with, had virtual coffee, etc. I got to know some many amazing people in this industry! It only took 30 minutes, but I made friends and genuine connections that are priceless! So many of those women I have gone off to do collaboration projects with, and those leading to new sales opportunities. Don’t ever underestimate the power of an hour, a good cup of coffee and a new connection! Always say YES!
    5. Free sessions. I am not kidding you, in my first year of business I had 214 free calls. WOW. I met with women and offered them complementary readings to tap in and give them messages for their life and business. This was one of the best decisions I made! Not only did I love seeing my calendar full of these calls, but it taught me so much about how to use my gift, how to connect, how to market and so much more! This gave me major momentum!
    6. Educating myself everyday. I love learning. I seriously have like 45 books in queue on my Kindle, I’m reading about 10 and have a list of about 20 that I want to get from an actual bookstore. I am always watching, observing and listening. I subscribe to podcasts, invest in courses, coaches, consultants, etc. Everyday I want to learn something new. The key, only learn about things that fire you up! Don’t tackle a topic just because you think you “need to know it”. Lame. Dive into the topics that you want to lean into. You’re feeling curious for a reason. Dig deeper my friend, there’s something waiting for you in the lesson. 
    7. I have non-negotiables. I meditate every damn day. I have Coffee with the Universe every damn day. I get clarity on how I want to feel every damn day. I fall in love with my business, you get it… Create your own routine and ritual that is non-negotiable. You have to. When you put yourself first, your mindset and your vibeset, you are then in the BEST place possible to give much better attention, time and guidance to everyone else around you, including yourself. Don’t cut yourself, your self-care and your soul-care out of your to do list anymore. Promise?
    8. Asking my family to support me emotionally. I know how fortunate I am to have an amazing support system. My husband adores me, he’s my biggest fan. It makes a huge difference in the way I have been able to be devoted and somewhat addicted to my business and personal growth. My kids get it, they know how happy I am and see what our life is like now that I am following and creating my dream everyday. They support me. They think it’s super cool. If I didn’t have that support, I couldn’t do it. But I have it because I ask for it. So let your family know how important your business success is to you. Be raw open and vulnerable about how much you want it! Chances are they will help you. People generally want to help!
    9. Not caring about what others are saying and doing. My husband and I were fishing with our 2 younger boys and they were bickering about each others bobber in the water, not paying attention to their own poles, their own space, etc. It was getting annoying. My husband said “Hey you two… Watch your own bobber!” and it totally stuck with me! Because that’s what it has to be like in business. Especially the online space. Pay attention to your own business, message and mission! You have to be able to say “who cares” and go after what you want. You can’t let other people’s opinions keep you from moving forward. You can’t let your fear be bigger than your passion! Watch your own bobber…
    10. Inspired content creation. Don’t put out content because you “have to”. Don’t write half ass blogs, boring posts or cookie cutter emails just because you are supposed to. I am here to tell you, when you act from inspiration on your creative ideas, that is when the magic happens! When it comes to you so strong you have to pull over to write it down or jump out of the shower because the download is coming in so good and juicy, that’s when you hit send! Put your message out into the world when you are fired up and ready to take on the world!

 

And hey, at the end the end of the day, you have to find your own personal set of blueprints for success. And that comes from doing YOU first. Listening to you first. And daring to do what you love vs. what everyone else says you should do.

I would love to help you create your own personal success blueprints! If you are wanting to learn how to create your own business from your intuition and from following your own path…

Click here to book a connection call, and let’s create some business magic!

Already have a business but feeling stuck or plateaued? Share with me what’s not working, I would love to help!

5 Ways to Receive Creative Ideas Consistently

5 Ways to Receive Creative Ideas Consistently

Anyone who has ever experienced an “ah-ha” moment, a “million dollar” idea or “divine download” knows that it is one of the most addictive experiences you can ever have as an entrepreneur!
 
You grow to crave that connection and look forward to the insight that comes in such mysterious ways.
 
I am totally being honest when I say that the creative ideation process is one of my most favorite experiences I have ever experienced!
 
There is nothing more thrilling to me than a brilliant idea that makes that light bulb in my soul, (and above my head), spark up!

Everything that has ever come into existence comes from one of those “spark starters”, and they all come from the Universe and are ready to rendezvous with us at any given point!

 

Here are the top 5 ways to connect with the Universe to get creative ideas consistently:

  1. Take it when it comes, morning, noon or night. Or in my case, 3 am. Inspiration is not always convenient. Be ready to jot down the idea in a bathroom, laundry room, car, etc. You never know when inspiration will hit, so be prepared! Big mistake- to think you will remember the idea later. You won’t.
  2. Express a moment of gratitude for the new ideas as they come in. Before jumping in, take a moment to feel truly grateful for the creativity that is flowing your way! Thank the Universe for the insight! This makes it much easier for more ideas to be delivered to you on a consistent basis.
  3. Play with the idea. Enjoy it. Bask in it. Dream up crazy and amazing ideas on what it can become and grow into. Don’t allow fear, doubts or HOW to show up and crush your ideation. Enjoy the dance, let the idea lead.
  4. Don’t make a To Do List! Let it come from a place of inspiration! Yes, we absolutely need routine and structure for our business. You have to be grounded in content creation, but keep yourself open as a creative channel for ideas to come in as many ways as possible! Open to the Universe, grounded to the Business…
  5. Let your intuition lead you to inspired ideas and to inspired action steps to take that are for your content’s highest good! When you are clear and in alignment, the creative ideas will start to flow to you! These inspired ideas come from the Universe and they come from being in flow and in a high vibratory state!

Always remember, no matter what the subject is, when you set an intention, the Universe hears that command. So set positive intentions that state your desires about being a creative content producer! Here is a positive affirmation to get you started:

Creative Affirmation:
I am always open and ready for divine inspiration and ideation.

Now…Go receive a download and share it with the world!!!

 
9 Signs it’s Time to Find Your Soul Purpose & True Calling

9 Signs it’s Time to Find Your Soul Purpose & True Calling

I look at old pictures of myself and wonder who she is.

I remember the days before, running myself ragged for a direct deposit into my bank account every two weeks. I often wonder what my life would look like if I hadn’t awakened my gifts and uncovered my soul’s purpose.

Looking back, I started to see the signs that were there all along, guiding me toward what I came here to do. Each of these played a part in following my calling.

Do any of them ring true for you? Find out here.

What Are You Missing By Resisting?

What Are You Missing By Resisting?

How do you tell the difference between Resistance and Being Out of Alignment?
 
Start by thinking of the activity, person, circumstance, event. 
 
Are you avoiding out of fear, irritation, or worry?
 
Then you’re resisting. 
 
Are you avoiding it out of intuition, a gut feeling, or  calm sense of knowing it is a clear no for you?
 
Then it is not in alignment for you. 
 
I always say to do what turns you on and lights you up, and I still believe that to be true. 
 
But I also believe we have to push ourselves with grace through the resistance. 
 
When you really take a look at it, are you resisting the things, activities, people and circumstances that can truly help you and serve you? I know I do. And that just doesn’t work for me any longer. 
 
I’m challenging myself to look at what I’m doing and reverse engineer it if I don’t like the way I feel about it or the resistance I have to it. 
 
I’m rating myself on a 1-10 on my own “Benefactor Factor” scale. 
 
1 being this is a bad idea or horrible for me. 
10 being this could only positively benefit me. 
 
When resistance shows up, I simply ask myself, “What is my Benefactor Factor?”
 
If it’s more than a 5, then I push myself to go and do the thing because I believe that “what we resist the most is best for our own soul.”
 
What would your life look like if you started saying yes to the things that you typically resist? 
 
Like:
– Networking events 
– Going on camera
– Private outreach
 
Think about all of the opportunity in what you are rejecting out of habit and out of pure resistance. 
 
There is so much power in your decision to push through. 
 
What will you see on the other side?
 
I hope you let me know. 
 
Go get it, girl!
Want to Create a 6-Figure Business?

Want to Create a 6-Figure Business?

Most likely the answer is yes. 

 
Why wouldn’t you? 
 
Here are a few tips on how to start RIGHT NOW:
 
1️⃣ Build relationships, not email lists and funnels. 
 
In my experience, what has worked the best for me is truly connecting heart to heart with as many women in business as possible – Not pushing them through a funnel, but genuinely creating content that comes straight from the soul to give some sort of value. (P.S. Any time you are stuck in your marketing, messaging, or money mindset, let me know. I have a ton of FREE resources for you. Just email me!)
 
2️⃣ Give all that you can for free. 
 
This has been a golden rule that I have learned from watching Marie Forleo and it has easily been the #1 thing that helped me create and sustain $10K months. 
 
I give away 90% of all my trainings, workshops, and masterclasses. Why?
 
Because it goes back to tip #1 – I am constantly building relationships. Before my clients buy from me, they have to trust me. I start building their trust by letting them experience my style of coaching, consulting, and mentoring for free FIRST!
 
(P.S. again – I have a group coaching call coming up. If you’d like to see how I serve my clients, and would like to receive support for yourself, hit reply and I’ll send you a private invite!)
 
I promise you that if you worry less about the sales conversion and more about the sales connection, you will hit $10K months and have a 6-figure business!
 
 
BTW – My 1:1 private coaching practice has a waitlist, but I still have a few spots open in my month-to-month mastermind – The Soulfire Empire. Check it out here!