Traversing Human Design and Spiritual Guidance with Patricia Rundblade

Traversing Human Design and Spiritual Guidance with Patricia Rundblade

Have you ever met someone whose story is so powerful, it reignites your own sense of purpose? This is precisely what happened when I sat down with the remarkable Patricia Rundblade. Her transformative tale from financial uncertainty to leading women into pivotal roles in their own narratives is the cornerstone of our latest episode. We traverse her mission, discussing how an awakening among women is reshaping our societal fabric, with personal authenticity and joy at the forefront. Patricia and I reflect on the diverse paths to fulfillment, whether through fine arts, film-making, or embracing the ‘great divorce’—a compelling trend towards valuing happiness over historical norms.

Navigating life’s intricate maze becomes less daunting when you understand your human design, and that’s where our conversation takes us next. The fusion of this intricate system into daily life, from marketing strategies to meal planning, unveils a level of self-awareness that is often left unexplored. We dissect its simplicity compared to astrology, its resonance with the chakra system, and how it offers a personalized blueprint for thriving without feeling confined by labels. This toolkit for self-discovery is not just theoretical—it’s a practical compass I’ve integrated deeply into my life, and I’m sharing those insights with you.

As the tides of content shift, we discuss our own strategic pivot towards TikTok’s vibrant landscape, where brevity reigns supreme and e-commerce blossoms. I reveal how shamanic journaling has influenced the workshops I craft, merging human design with spiritual practices to guide your journey. Ending on a heartfelt note, we connect with the essence of our loved ones passed, carrying their wisdom into our dreams and daily lives. Patricia extends an invitation to delve deeper, with a free gift waiting in the show notes. Join us as we celebrate the magic woven into the fabric of business, intuition, and the universal trust that propels us forward.

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Amber Annette:

Welcome to the Business Psychic Podcast, the show that helps you ignite your soul’s purpose, turn up your creativity and activate sales and marketing magic. I’m your host, amber Annette, and I’m thrilled to be here with you today to explore the depth of what it means to be a woman in business. I believe that business is more than just making money. It’s about making a difference and making your mark. So sit back, get present and let’s dive in and uncover the secrets to building a business with soul, purpose and magic. Welcome back to another episode of the Business Psychic. I’m Amber Annette, your host, and I am so excited to bring to you today’s guest, patricia Rumblade. She is one of my most favorite clients I have ever had and our paths have crossed again, and I’m so excited to bring her to you. Patricia lives her life’s purpose as a great adventure, filled with curiosity that is, magic and great courage, while eagerly awaiting for life’s next adventure. When she is not on an amazing adventure, she is sharing her sacred personal power practice with others through her writing, drawing and signature coaching programs focused on cultivating self-trust and guiding individuals to discover their inner direction. The rest of the time, when she’s not being all of that fabulousness, she is going to be resting and you can find her with her beloved dog, leo, on adventures in the Arizona desert, chatting endlessly with her children and closest friends and always keeping an eye out for the next greatest life adventure. Patricia hi, how are you? It’s so good to see you, hi.

Patricia Rundblade:

Thanks for having me. I know it’s been so long.

Amber Annette:

I know I know we were just chatting before we went live that the universe works in such cool and mysterious and synchronistic ways. I was recently I moved and when I was moving I came across, all in one day, two things of yours that I have not seen in literally probably like five years. So number one was your client folder. I don’t know if you remember this about coaching with me, but I always use just like traditional, like Manila folders and paper and notebook paper and like that’s just like my process for how I work with my clients and keep track of our sessions and what we cover and what we talk about. And so I came across your file and I was like, oh, patricia. And then, like 10 minutes later, I came across your fabulous Money Block book, that coloring book where you can like get clear on money blocks that you have while you’re coloring. Well, anybody who knows me knows I’m like obsessed with like coloring and I loved it back then. And, oh my gosh, I like was like, ok, I have to have, I have to find out a what Patricia is up to again and be she clearly needs to come on the podcast, so welcome. Well, thank you.

Patricia Rundblade:

Gosh, I know that coloring book Woo, I I I pulled that book out of a box because I moved myself recently and it brought I I I opened up my own copy where I have colored and written notes and everything. Yeah, it was such a fabulous refresher of like, oh yeah, I can manifest this.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, we need around to, or we need you to, bring that like back to the world because, oh my gosh, I had. I had so much fun just kind of flipping through it myself. So so well, now let’s fast forward. So I mean, I loved reading your bio talking about, like, what is life’s next adventure? So catch me up, what are your share with me and share with our listeners? Like a little bit about what you’re doing now and what adventure you’re currently on? Oh my gosh.

Patricia Rundblade:

OK, so fast forwarding. So many, like so many chapters have happened since then. So now I’m still. My coaching business is still very much about helping women really Manage their wealth and create more and manifest more into their lives, but it’s really more. We’re still doing all of that, but now we’re just getting ready, getting rid of all the fear, bringing back all of that ambition and just really bringing back about confidence and leadership in your life and really creating again your life, like this whole new transformation which goes to me because I realized through all of this adventuring that I’ve been doing, that I’ve worn so many masks and so many personas that I’ve never, I’ve never been at this point in my life where it’s just me. My kids are grown, I’ve been a new place, I’m in a new house that is just me. So I have this whole brand new opportunity to kind of dive into this whole big adventure within my life. So I’m really helping other women do the same thing around the money, around their personality, around what they want to create, instead of being stuck in that kind of perceived drudgery of doing nothing.

Amber Annette:

I mean, I think I mean we’re seeing this at like massive levels across the board, across in a variety of ages, right, I mean, I think you know, we used to think of it maybe as like a midlife crisis, where now it’s like these aren’t even like midlife anymore. These are just women radically awakening to, you know, the life that they truly want to be living, that is based off of their needs, their desires, their wants, versus, like, what has been placed on us by past generations and society. And it makes me always wonder, when things like this come up, like what is it that is so pivotal about, pivotal about this moment in time where that radical awakening is happening? So what are your thoughts on it? Do you think it was COVID or just politics? I mean, like, let’s kind of what do you think?

Patricia Rundblade:

I think it’s a combination of a lot of things, you know. I think for me, like during COVID, it was kind of a reality check of, like what in the bleep am I doing Right? Like this is just kind of a little bit of a rat race for me. And there was this conversation that I had in 2022, early 2022, with the coach I was working with at the time that all of a sudden, it was just like this spark went off and I was like, why am I still in California? Like why, like, my whole intention was to, one, never, ever, be in California, and two, I ended up spending almost 20 years there and it was just like I need to, I need to shift, I just need something a little bit more meaningful in my life. And I think a lot of people are just realizing, too, that that, like, wow, there is so much more to life than just going to that nine to five or just kind of doing those same things and with so many relationships ending as a result of, probably, covid and all of this new wave of awakening that everybody is going into, that people are just kind of like I’m done, I’m going to go out and do what I want to go out and do what’s more fulfilling right and what’s more purposeful.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I mean, I see it left and right. I see more people starting, you know, purpose driven businesses right now, I think, than I’ve ever seen before. You know people really, and people that are starting businesses based off of, like, their spiritual gifts or I mean the, the amount of other people that I’m seeing that are like I think I’m psychic too. And how do I start? I mean it’s just incredible. It’s such an incredible time where, also, I think the level that we’re able to communicate with each other, you know the different platforms that are out there for us to see what’s actually going on and to not just get you know everything from what you see on on TV, for me also is, you know, I mean, of course, used to sermon, but I mean I just think the level of, the level of connectedness, is that a is, is that an all time high, and the, the ability to see other people that are doing it their way, not the ways that have been like placed on us, is it’s just incredible. So I am so grateful that my kids are growing up in this time period. I know a lot of people are like, oh, the 80s and 90s were so great, but I think now is just as maybe even better because of now it’s, it’s coming from such a place of like authenticity. I mean that I’m not a big like oh, this is my word of the year, but let me tell you, like, when I say, like, I know, 2024 is about being radically authentic, like odd with odd, the audacity the audacity to be completely authentic. So, yeah, I think it’s just. I think it’s such a cool and fun and interesting time and I love that there’s people like you out there that are supporting people during this time, because it can be confusing. I mean, it can be like you’re going crazy.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yeah, and it can be. And it’s really like there’s actually like a little bit of a pathway to follow when you’re going on this trajectory of like revamping your life right, revamping how you think, how you feel, because it’s really more about not being so much in our head about what shouldn’t, what shouldn’t, shouldn’t be done, it’s more about how you want to feel. And I know that big turning point for me. It’s like I’m tired of feeling tired. I’m tired of feeling like this is just a string of Thursdays, right? Yeah, yeah.

Amber Annette:

And. I mean I think and I think being able to be like so strong in who you are and just to honor, like how you are feeling and what you truly want to be doing, I mean that’s such a gift in itself. I mean there’s just not there, unfortunately there’s, that just hasn’t been taught to us, you know, and now I think we’re coming into an age where that is going to be like what’s taught is doing what feels good, what feels right, what turns you on, what lights you up. And I’m not, I mean, and I’m talking about I guess you know from more of that. You know from that purpose. You know from that. You know from that purpose driven place versus, oh, you have to go to college and you have to do things this way and then you get married and then you have kids. Like we’re kind of, I think we’re kind of done with that, with that model.

Patricia Rundblade:

I think you know, I agree with that, I agree with that, you know, and my kids are the boys that I raised. Unknowingly. I raise them to actually be such open-minded kids that I have two different spectrums right. I have one who’s got a master’s in fine arts, but he’s creating his own life through his art and through what he wants to do. And then I have another one who didn’t go to college, but he’s creating his life through his version of art, through filmmaking, and so it’s interesting to see that they’re creating their lives on what fills them up, what gives them purpose. Yeah, their terms On their terms, right, and something that really wasn’t, I think, in our generation, that really wasn’t available at the time. Right, because of all of that generational impact of everything. And now it’s just so. It’s easier to just kind of go look, I need to get over this stuff and heal it so that I can move on, because there is something way more expansive in me that needs to be revealed out to the world.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah, I can definitely identify. I mean I often say like I have past lives in this life and I feel like 2024 is gonna be about creating and even another gosh I mean you talk about like if we’re using the metaphor as like a book is like your life. I mean I feel like I’m not even just done with a chapter. I feel like I’m done with volume seven of I don’t know how many different volumes I’m gonna write in this lifetime, patricia, but that’s what it kind of feels like and I know so many other women are kind of feeling like that too. So I’ve shared on here that I’m going through a divorce and there’s I don’t know if you are aware, but they’re calling this like the great divorce. They’re calling this time period right now the great divorce because divorce rates are at an all time high and I think the age group was for, like women between I can’t remember the exact. I should probably be careful if I start like quoting shit and not being able to back it up. People be like where is your source? I don’t know? Tic Tac, okay, like I don’t know. I sat on Tic Tac, so it’s gotta be true. But I did read something where it’s called the era of the great divorce because of the divorce rate is the highest it’s been, and I think it was between the age of like 35 and 45. I mean 35 and 50, somewhere in that age range, and the remarriage rate for that same age group is the lowest it’s ever been. So not only are we all getting divorced, we’re all like screw this, I am never getting married again In there, done that, don’t even want the t-shirt anymore. Yeah, so I mean, I think there’s just so much like that happening on this planet, where we are just coming into this innate awareness of how powerful we can be when we are just sovereign and when we have our own space to do exactly what we wanna do. I joke all the time with my single or with my friends that are like, oh my gosh, what’s it like being single? Like what do you do? Do you just go out all the time? I’m like, are you kidding me? I watch whatever I wanna watch on TV. I drink sparkling water and I color. Like that’s my like hot Saturday night, okay.

Patricia Rundblade:

I become the biggest homebody, like I’ve been single for quite a few years after my really long divorce. But it just seems like I agree that there’s probably there is this big resurgence of divorce because so many people, I think, probably felt that being married was the societal norm. It was that imprinting that that’s what you do, right, and I’m not opposed to marriage. If that ever happened to my life again, so be it. That’s great, I’m not gonna deny it, but it is, I think. And for women it’s like, oh my God, I don’t have to be married. Yeah, I don’t have to be married to create my own.

Amber Annette:

And for those that do, it like that and for those that want that like that’s great too. I think that’s. I think more than anything, it’s not married or not married. It’s the choice and people respecting your decision. You know what I mean. It’s being so comfortable with making your decision based off of your own ones and needs versus what everybody else wants, and that is where I believe things are really gonna start really changing rapidly on this planet.

Patricia Rundblade:

Right, and I think part of that transformation too, like for women, when they’re like the women I work with and when they’re in that, reinventing themselves, they’re letting go of that fear and getting that ambition, but they’re also letting go of the need to apologize for anything. Right, I don’t have to apologize for me showing up as me in this authentic self that is created, that was created, that has been hidden. Right, it’s like time to show the fuck up. Right, that’s who you are.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, that’s why, like I love when you said earlier, you know, being the leader of your life, you get to choose. You know, it’s like who would have thought that, like Julia Roberts and Pretty Woman had it right, like all those years ago where she was. Like I say who, I say when. I say how much, yeah, and I say how much. Oh my gosh, I haven’t watched that one for a while. That might be up next for a coloring session. So take us through like kind of like your transformational process that you take your clients through. So somebody comes to you and they are wanting to reinvent themselves, like what’s kind of like your step one with someone.

Patricia Rundblade:

Well, first of all, my step one is, you know, a part of my path has been going down this human design and you’ve probably heard of it, you know where everybody’s kind of trying to figure out what kind of aura and energy type they have, you know. So for me, taking my client through is getting them clear on what they were designed when they were birthed, right? What’s that design that guides their life?

Amber Annette:

So, just for the sake of my audience, give us like the quick and dirty version of like what is human design, because I might have listeners that know a little bit about it and I might have advanced listeners, because the majority are gonna be. You know pretty much spiritual women in business, except for I joke my son-in-law, zach is like my biggest fan and he is like blue collar, as they could find Like he is my biggest fan and yet not my ideal demographic. So we’re gonna speak to all of those spiritual women in business and Zach.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yeah, Okay, Zach, this is for you All right. So human design was brought into the world in late 70s or late 80s by this guy His name is Ra-U-Ru, who I can’t I always get his name mixed up, but he got a download while he was in a retreat in Ibiza for this whole system and it’s based on five principles of, like the Chinese I Ching, the Kabbalah Hindu chakra system, quantum physics and astrology. So it’s a system that’s built upon all of those principles and it’s all about. It’s based around your time of birth and your place of birth and it’s how all the stars lined up and how all the magical stardust created you. And there’s five different types of energy types that you can be, you know manifestor, generator, manifesting generator, projector and reflector. So all of those different types of energy kind of are a specific design, unique to you, on how you live your life and how your life unfolds and what you experience in your life, both good and bad, which there really is no good or bad, but whatever lessons there are.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah.

Patricia Rundblade:

And so what are?

Amber Annette:

you.

Patricia Rundblade:

I’m a manifestor, so I’m part of the small 8% group of the population, so I’m a projector and you are a projector very nice. Yeah, yeah yeah.

Amber Annette:

So I know a little bit about human design, more from like a marketing perspective, because, especially if somebody that I work with as a projector, I wanna make sure we’re taking that into account with marketing Cause it. So I of course, always tie everything back to like marketing and sales human design. No exception there. So all right. So your step one is kind of using the system of human design and if you have, if you’re a listener and you haven’t done this, man, I highly encourage you to definitely check out Patricia’s links in the show notes because you can go and you can just enter your birthday and you can get your human design and you can learn so much about yourself. Just, I mean, human design is amazing, it really is. So, yeah, so make sure, as a listener, you go check that out, go down the human design rabbit hole. It’s a good one to go down. So human design is kind of your step one, and then, once you kind of help her get clear on that, what’s kind of like your step two? What are you seeing like is really what you know that transform, that transformative path?

Patricia Rundblade:

Yeah, typically it’s. You know, we kind of get a good understanding of, like, you know, what’s open and what’s defined for them, and then kind of looking at how all of that plays into how they’re feeling about themselves and what they see in their lives, pretty much playing upon all of those aha moments for them, we’ll kind of dictate which direction we’re going. So, you know, some women just maybe wanna like, haven’t realized, like, oh my gosh, I have been, you know, I’ve been eating, or, you know, eating, doing something with their health. That that’s just really been counterintuitive to what their design truly is. I know, for me that’s been one of the things. You know, I always thought you had to eat three meals a day and you had to eat one in the morning, one, you know, one at noon, one at night, when I realized, through my own design, that it was like, oh, I’m better suited eating in the evening time, right In the, you know, and eating more food in the evening time versus eating throughout the day, right, so it’s made a really impact on my energy right and really environments like, like, for me, I’m always the I’m like, the most creative and the most impactful when I’m in some place that’s really inspiring and creative right. For some people that’s not the best place, or some people they need to be more in a, you know, quieter setting. Right, I would get super distracted. Yeah, like I would get.

Amber Annette:

So who knows where I would end up in, like something like I would start wandering and talking to everybody Like I would not get. I was like one of those kids in school Like I never got any of my work done. I was always like in trouble for talking and wandering around the classroom because I get excited about everything around me. So that’s why I do my best when I’m like I call well, you know I call it coffee with the universe in the mornings, when it’s quiet, kids are at school, dogs done with her stuff, like I’m just good to be quiet and present. So it’s that’s interesting that human design kind of shows kind of shows you that what environment is gonna be.

Patricia Rundblade:

It shows all of those things because we’re so conditioned to live in a specific way. You know all the standards that have been imposed upon us, right? So human design kind of shows you what you’re truly meant, how you’re truly meant to live.

Amber Annette:

Very cool.

Patricia Rundblade:

Like part of that revamping on all these women that are awakening and kind of going oh yeah, there’s a different way for me to exist in this world. Yes, it’s a little bit more fulfilling and a little more you know.

Amber Annette:

And I think also for me at least, human design was a lot less confusing than astrology. Like I am a psychic medium, I straight up talk to dead people and have the coolest connection to the universe and spirit and angels. And like I cannot understand astrology, Like I just don’t get it. You know what I mean Really, I just don’t get it. I don’t get all the houses. It seems so complex and so confusing to me. But human design can really kind of simplify it and make it really into. I mean, I know astrology can too and there’s great insight in astrology, but to me human design just takes it to a more intimate level and it’s not nearly as confusing.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yeah, I think it takes it into a more user-friendly level for it, and it’s just like the chakra systems right. I’ve done a lot of study with the chakras and I’ve done some courses through my business with that too. But it brings that into and the way it all beautifully aligns and works within a person you’re just like that is crazy. This is that it just flows so seamlessly one into the other and I think it really gives you a really wonderful overall picture of who you are as a person.

Amber Annette:

And I think we like our archetypes right, I mean like anagram, and I mean I’ve taken so many different personality tests. I mean I think human beings just in general love to try to figure ourselves out a little bit more. I mean even with the zodiac signs a little bit. What’s your sign? Like? We like to know, we like to belong, we like to know A about ourselves, but then also, who are our people? Who are people that most align with whatever archetype we are in that moment? And I think too, the other thing about human design, for me at least, is it doesn’t put you in a box Like, for example, even though I’m a projector and identify with all the other projectors, I think sometimes you can feel like you’re placed inside of a box with some archetypes, and human design does not feel like that at all with me.

Patricia Rundblade:

Right, and I think it is. Even though everybody has all these labels, it’s really not about living that label. It’s about living where your openness is and because that’s really where you take in life through all those open gates and channels and those open centers. That’s where you really experience all of the energy around you, right? So there can be some things, there’s some days where I feel like I’m performing like a generator, like just go, go, go go, but then I pay for it. I pay for it in the end, right, because I’m like I should have done that, because now I’m just tired for three days, right? So all of those kind of things that just create deeper awareness so that you are living more purposefully, intentionally and authentically to who you are.

Amber Annette:

And I would even add in there I think for me I really have to be mindful, as a projector, that my theme is I need to wait for an invitation, and that is such a huge theme in my life, my whole life, even before. Once I found out I was a projector and then, reflecting back, I was like holy shit, and understanding what that means, and for me it’s an energetic invitation and that comes when I get really present for someone. I almost always will get a question asked to me or something along those lines, which is, as a projector, probably the most powerful thing that a question to me is a gift. It really is.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yeah, there’s beauty in understanding that, right, because I know for me, my authority is emotional from my solar plexus, right, but I also have a defined spleen, which means that I’m getting intuitive hits just in the moment. But my journey through that is like, oh, I have to understand that emotional wave and not respond to an emotional hit that’s coming out of maybe a survival instinct, right. And knowing that this intuitive hit is actually coming out of a place of, yeah, that’s good for you versus fear for your life, right. So learning that through me too has been a journey of a self and it’s really transformed how I make decisions in my life, because before I would just go along with that hit, right, and it would be dang it, I shouldn’t have made that decision.

Amber Annette:

Well, I think it’s easy to make the assumption, though, if you’re feeling it, if you’re getting the hit, that that would be the right next move. And I used to kind of struggle with that from an ideation standpoint. I would get an idea and be like, oh my gosh, like Joe Vitale in the Secret said, when you get the idea you have to act. We know it. Fu, joe, you’re actually wrong. I’m not meant to act immediately. The universe, in fact doesn’t always speed. I don’t know if you remember that part of that book. In fact, I need to kind of sit with some ideas for a day or so and really let it get. I really need to ground it before I just act on it.

Patricia Rundblade:

So yeah, it’s interesting and that’s one of the things I’ve learned as a manifestor to me and I have ideas, just boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. But I’ve had to learn how to just kind of like OK, I just need to put it down on a piece of paper, come back to it, maybe have my pendulum time with it, maybe pull some cards on it. Because as an intuitive reader too, it’s just been kind of like I had to kind of like revamp and re-understand how I am interpreting these intuitive hits, even for other people.

Amber Annette:

Yeah. So when you think about your journey in the self-development, spiritual awakening space, do you think that human design is like your thing? Is that like the modality that’s given you the most awareness and the most aha? If you had to kind of like think about maybe your top three, what would they be?

Patricia Rundblade:

Oh, I think definitely would be. Human design would be like the top one for me. Just because I got my first chart back in 2016. Started doing some research on it was like overwhelmed and like, oh my gosh, I have no idea what any of this stuff means, and then put it away. And then last year, while I was living down at the bottom of the Grand Canyon with not a lot of things to do, I dove into it even more and in within that time frame, it was just kind of like wow, this is. I should have read this stuff like 400 years ago, but I think it’s given me the most information about who I am as a person. But it’s also validated a lot of things that I’ve learned along the way Through all of those personality tests or through all of my own meditation and spiritual journeys that have been revealed to me through, you know, divine source, right. So it’s just validated a lot of things for me too. Got it.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah. And I think you know after oh my gosh, I really need to get an accurate tally. I mean, I think it’s probably hard at this level, but I think I’m at over like I’m probably close to 8000 readings that I’ve done in 10 years. I know it’s just incredible and I can’t think of any reading I’ve ever done in all of those, and those are like a blend of like readings and coachings and group readings and all the things right, and I can’t think of one person that didn’t want to feel validated. You know, I think that’s like, in fact, I’m writing a book and like that’s like a big part of what I talk about in the book is like the feeling of being validated, of knowing what, what we’re feeling is right and knowing that what we’re feeling is even sometimes okay or like. You know, I think sometimes we still want to feel like we’re normal and what we’re going through is normal. And if you can have a system like human design, give you a little piece of that where you’re like, oh okay, yeah, I, I, this makes sense, you know when you can feel that it’s, it’s pretty incredible.

Patricia Rundblade:

I totally agree with that and I think you know, and I think that’s one of the things I think through my own journey, it you know, that whole validation piece of like oh, I’m not nuts, right, you know. I’m not, I’m not crazy, I’m not crazy for feeling that way or wanting to do this or being pulled in that direction. Right Like when I left California, people thought I was crazy. They’re like you’ve been here, you have, you’ve established, you’ve done all this and I’m like, yeah, time for me to just pack up and go sold all my stuff, I’ve been packed up and left. You know, it was like I needed to do that and knowing through my design that my life is all about experiencing all these adventures in life, that is part of my path, right? And as I look back, it really has been. But I haven’t really validated any of that until I went through my chart in that deep dive moment of like, oh yeah, now it all makes sense why I’ve gone through all of those different journeys, because it’s all about the adventure and what, what comes out of it at the end, right?

Amber Annette:

Very cool, yeah, very cool. So what’s your next adventure?

Patricia Rundblade:

Oh, my next adventure is, you know, kind of digging out Tucson and finding out what. What the adventure is here, it hasn’t been revealed just yet. You know, I was guided to buy this house, leo, and I have been adjusting and I feel like you bought there.

Amber Annette:

You’re not even like you decided to like really take up residence.

Patricia Rundblade:

Huh, I took up residence here now. Whether or not it’s here, you know some of my readings have been. You know there’s other places I’m intended to go to, so you know I’m not really sure yet this, but for now.

Amber Annette:

Well, do you want to find out, because that’s what’s up here. Next is, I’m going to tap in and do a little reading here for you.

Patricia Rundblade:

Do it because I have. Oh, I love you. I haven’t had one of your readings in a long time.

Amber Annette:

I know, I know, okay, so let’s Well, I’m here to tell you that the first thing that I see is not the desert, it’s actually a pier At like. It’s like a pier, a dock, an ocean, and I would say this feels like way more east coast than west coast. It feels a little bit colder, which makes me think it’s. It definitely feels more on the, definitely more on the east coast side. So I don’t know if you have any plans of just travel coming up there, but loud and clear, that’s that’s coming for you. The second thing is I see a like. So I don’t know if you have been thinking about like how you want to do some marketing or some different like campaigns, but I’m getting a series of workshops for you that I feel like could be really powerful, but it’s specifically for human design and for manifestors and just just manifestors. So not trying to speak the design to the other archetypes, but just to manifestors. And what’s interesting is it feels like it’s definitely more along the lines of like dating or relationships or something along those lines. So I don’t know if and I believe you did that like years and years ago, if I’m remembering correctly so it’s the universe is saying bring back some of your roots along with this, like new awareness of human design, and I’m telling you now it is going to be like all the rage to like use human design for dating. So you got to trust me on this one. I’m going to like to hear how that goes like. Maybe even sign me up, maybe, like I’ve got a ways to go on that one. I guess you never know right, that’s really interesting. And then we had talked about the podcast before, well before we hit record, and I am going to invite you to just hold off on podcasts for a little bit. I would actually invite you to look at is doing something with? I would say, either. I’m going to tell you tick tock, I. I feel like having these like short, sweet, punchy videos that you can also use some of, because you’re like a physical product person. Also, you have cool physical products that could go in the tick tock shop. I need you to trust me again and I need you to go in on tick tock, not in on a podcast. Okay, 2024 might be one of your best years ever. Love it, yeah, and I I don’t know if you already are, but I feel like you’re going to start dating somebody. I feel like you’re meeting somebody or you’ve already met him and it’s just starting. It’s just early and starting.

Patricia Rundblade:

All right, so can I see, can I share where you’re, where you’re on the nose with some of this stuff.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I’m so, yeah, I can’t wait.

Patricia Rundblade:

Let’s hear it. And the the location is going further, further East. My in previous readings that has been more like going back to Texas. Possibly. So it could be the Texas coast, but I don’t know, so maybe it might be. I’ve never spent a lot of time in the East, so who knows? You know, it’s always anything about.

Amber Annette:

Maine at all.

Patricia Rundblade:

Oh good, gosh Maine, huh, no, no, no Maine.

Amber Annette:

I’m telling you, we’ll see what comes up.

Patricia Rundblade:

All right, all right.

Amber Annette:

It’s pretty rare, I’m wrong.

Patricia Rundblade:

So it’s so funny that you brought up workshops, because I was doing a shaman journaling prompt yesterday for directions journaling prompt and at the end of it I just kind of got this quick download of like, oh, this workshop looks like this and you have and it’s very interactive and it’s very and it incorporates some of the human design stuff to it and incorporates some of the other spiritual stuff that I do, and so that was quite interesting. I was like, hmm, let me put that over there because you know I need to let my emotional wave just kind of work through that Podcast. Yeah, I’ve never been a fan of tick tock, but you know, I think I’m always open to trying new stuff. May need some coaching on that one, though.

Amber Annette:

I know it’s new. I just feel, like some and I know so many people I think have heard like this or that about it, or like how the platforms are. I’m here to tell you like I read energy and I would hands down say, go tick tock over Instagram all day long, every day, like there is something really compelling and really calling about it. Right like it in the, in the era that we’re in right now, for the next couple years it’s, I feel like it’s really going to be the platform.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yeah, awesome, and that’s so funny that you brought up relationships. And, yes, I did do like I think my first version of coaching, of my coaching business, was all about relationships and then it kind of transitioned into money. So that is so funny. But you know, just the other probably just the other day, and in a previous reading, probably a couple weeks ago that it’s like there’s somebody, that there’s somebody out on the fringe right now, that that’s there. The other day I had a dream about, I don’t know, some guy. You know I can, I can always. I always just get the faces and a little scenario for me, you know. So I’m like, okay, I think it was interesting, there’s somebody like this whole thing, oh, it’s coming Right, you know. And so I take my dreams very seriously because I get a lot of messages of my dreams and and just this morning I was like, all of a sudden, someone that I dated in the past popped up into my head and we were having this conversation in my head and I’m just like, all right, my mind is having a conversation with somebody and so I think more that energy was more about how this person, how he and I were in this relationship. Those aspects that were very yummy and delicious, not so much the person himself.

Amber Annette:

So, yeah, at the table with what’s what you want. Sounds like that’s happening.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yeah, so yeah. So you were, as always, spot on.

Amber Annette:

I don’t know if you know how I close out my show, but, patricia, I always ask one powerful question at the end. Do you know what I’m going to ask you? Do you know this question?

Patricia Rundblade:

I don’t know, but I can just chill, so go ahead.

Amber Annette:

And I have a feeling. I’m going to write it down here. We’ll see if I’m right. If you could connect to anybody in spirit and receive a message from them today, who would it be?

Patricia Rundblade:

Anybody, Anybody, it would actually be my maternal grandmother.

Amber Annette:

Has your? Has your dad crossed over also? Yes, okay, so I definitely have your dad here right away. I feel him and his presence. So now, with either of them, I get the smell of like smoke Almost. Did your grandmother smoke or did your father smoke anything?

Patricia Rundblade:

Why, I would get like the yeah, he did at one point in time. He smoked cigarettes when I was little.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I just I kind of get. I think he’s also showing me just like this, this part of his life that feels to me like maybe it was kind of his favorite, I would say maybe back in the you know late 70s kind of. He just feels like at one point he was quite fun, he was quite a fun guy, like to have maybe a beer and a cigarette, and he just shows me just kind of a really interest. It was just like a. He’s just saying it was like a very interesting time Now did he pass when he was on the younger side. Has he been gone for quite some time?

Patricia Rundblade:

He’s been gone for quite some time. He was in his. My dad was old when I was born already, so he was 70.

Amber Annette:

Oh, he feels much, he feels young. He did he, do you remember? Would that describe him? Did he have just like a, like a young feeling spirit, just he did, he did.

Patricia Rundblade:

There were times and it’s so funny that you brought up the 70s and having fun, because my favorite time of remembering him is he’s. We used to have this hallway outside of the bedroom that I shared with one of my brothers, and my dad used to like to wear hats too, like fedoras, and he would come down and he’d get his hat off the thing, and if I would peek my head out of my bedroom door, he would like make pull his hat down and make all these funny faces, and you know that’s what he would do on his way to before he left.

Amber Annette:

I think it’s interesting you have a hat on today.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yes, and hats new for me.

Amber Annette:

Interesting. So I, I mean I definitely pick up him, I want to see if I can tap into this. And you said this is your maternal grandmother. Okay, so now do you I want to be mindful of, like I was she like any connection for her to like Native American or anything in that space at all that would resonate.

Patricia Rundblade:

Yes, my my roots.

Amber Annette:

Okay, so I’m sorry I got. I got to just keep going here because I’m. I just get this feeling of like ancient medicine and wisdom from within her. She just feels like she was very wise, also kind of, I would say what we would nowadays maybe say is like a little on the introverted side, especially around people she didn’t know she was. I kind of feel like maybe a little nervous or skeptical of people and I don’t. I feel like maybe when she was quite young she had just maybe not the greatest upbringing and so it made her very cautious of people. Does that resonate at all or match her? Yes, and rightfully so. It feels like things were not. Now. Do you know that you gift your? She says you get your gift of writing from her. Do you know that? No, do you right? Do you consider yourself? I mean I know you have, well, you must. I mean I know you have books and stuff. So I feel like she’s showing me that she would have to. She would write, but she would have to. She would burn what she would write because she was so nervous of people reading it. Do you know that? Anything about that for her?

Patricia Rundblade:

I didn’t know a lot about her. She lived with us, but we didn’t always. We didn’t have the greatest relationship.

Amber Annette:

Well, that’s just because of the age difference you were. Maybe this is when you were a teen, yeah, yeah, she’s saying that it was just the age and generation, but there’s a reason. You asked for her and she’s a very strong spirit guide for you, very strong, do you? Do you drink tea? Are you a tea drinker?

Patricia Rundblade:

I’m not a tea drinker. Do you remember her, her drinking tea?

Amber Annette:

Yeah, she so specifically like this is something for her, like she would like, almost like she was a very much a concoction person. Maybe you don’t know this about her, but she would make like tinctures, like tinctures and like, like that was like her thing, and at one point it was. She’s really inviting you to learn about teas. I wish she was. She’s saying she just wishes she would have known you. You could have, like now the two of you would sit and talk for hours and be best friends because of what she is, of what she had to keep secret, though, also is what she’s saying to me. She just had to keep so many aspects of her hidden in secret. You’re crying. Welcome to the show. I don’t think I’ve ever had a guest on who does it, so it’s okay. So that’s her message for you to do.

Patricia Rundblade:

Validated 50 million things. Okay, my grandma, let’s go back to the Native American. You know, like probably everybody else in this country, I’ve done a you know one of those. You know DNA sample things, right, and. And so, oh yeah, it did come back that I am 53% indigenous Native American from Mexico. Oh, wow, dating back to are going as as early as a great grandparent. So which would have been her parents, right, which I do know, there is a lot of indigenous on my maternal side of my family. And then ancient medicine and wisdom. I’ve always felt that, as I’ve come into my gifts, as spiritually and psychically, and I’ve always felt I don’t know if you know what a curandera is in the Mexican tradition, it’s there, they’re the, they’re the healers, right, the, the witches, sure, right. And I’ve always felt like, if it wasn’t my mom, I always thought it was my grandmother who was probably a curandera at some point in time or had that ancient healing within her, yeah, so I’ve always felt that it was there. So she did confirm that. I don’t. I don’t know about her writing, because she spoke Spanish and I didn’t speak a lot of English. I mean, I didn’t speak a lot of Spanish. I, you know, grew up learning English, so I didn’t know a lot about, I didn’t know a lot about her, but she lived to be 99 years old, holy shit, I know right. So so I always kind of thought she was a fascinating lady, she was a beautiful lady, but yeah, so she’s just someone I haven’t known a lot about and the teas and tinctures are so funny because we grew up, you know, you grew up in a Mexican household and and you have traditional Mexican parents and they do all of the, the tinctures and teas, and like here we’re just gonna mix up all these herbs and make this little soup yeah we’re gonna cure you with an egg. Yeah, you know we’re gonna say these kind of prayers for you. You know you’re not going to go outside after this timeframe, because that’s when you know the evil spirits are out, right, you know? So you grew up with a lot of that and you always kind of wonder like where did it come from?

Amber Annette:

but when you go down this spiritual path, Well, I’m so glad that it brought some validation. Like I said, what did I say? I said I can’t think of one person I’ve ever done a reading for that. That’s not like the main thing that they want to feel from.

Patricia Rundblade:

It is just validated and I think the tears that you just had in the truth bumps are so validating to to that as well and that is so funny that I thought of her and my dad came up, because I’m aware of my dad’s presence, because I do smell cigarettes in my house, yeah, and I don’t smoke. Yeah, I’ll be walking. I got it right away. I’ll be walking places in the house and I’m like please stop smoking at my house, take it outside.

Amber Annette:

I don’t mind you being here, but please take it out oh, that’s interesting, because that was that was the first thing I picked up from him too, so you got. You got both of them today here for you you know. Thank you, gosh how powerful your readings are.

Patricia Rundblade:

I’m like, oh my gosh well, thank you, it was so beautiful. I so appreciate that and thank you.

Amber Annette:

I appreciate you being here and sharing your story with the audience and I can’t wait to have you back again and like hear how the reading went and what next adventure you’re up to oh, I look forward to sharing all of that awesome. Well, if you want to connect more with Patricia, make sure you go and check out today’s show notes. There will be a link there to get a fabulous free gift from her and connect with her and learn all about human design and help you find the steps on your next adventure. So until then, I will catch you here next week on our next week’s episode and go be the good, go be the light and go be in your magic. I’ll see you soon. Thanks for listening to this episode. I hope it inspired and ignited your entrepreneurial spirit in terms of your intuition and trust in the universe. Make sure to check out the show notes section for access to my transformation suite all of free resources, tools and content to help you grow your business while staying true to your soul’s purpose. Until next week, go make some business magic, soul sister.

Patricia Rundblade

Patricia Rundblade

Emerge! + Freedom is Already Yours

A self described chameleon. Someone who has given a great deal of time, energy, and self-sacrifice to morphing and molding to fit what others have always expected of her, while hiding her truest self from the world. With over 7.5 million people in the world, all she wanted to do was not be seen or heard. Over the past two decades, versions of her have died. Truer versions have been birthed. Many bridges have burned in the process. Her creative process of death and rebirth is an inner roadmap designed within her from the beginning, and created to reveal the emergence of her true power of creation and manifestation, and the embodiment of her sacred personal power as a visionary leader. Patricia lives her life’s purpose as a great adventure filled with a curiosity that is magic, and great courage while eagerly awaiting for life’s next adventure. When she is not on an amazing adventure, she is sharing her sacred personal power practice with others through her writing, drawing, and signature coaching programs focused on cultivating self-trust and guiding individuals to discover their inner direction, The rest of the time you can find her and her beloved dog, Leo on adventures in the Arizona desert, chatting endlessly with her children and closest friends, and always keeping an eye out for the next greatest life adventure!

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Embark on an inspiring journey with me, Amber Annette, as I welcome the remarkable Danielle Marggraf to enlighten us on the transformative power of feminine wealth. Danielle’s evolution from the depths of financial despair to her rise as a money and nervous system coach will leave you in awe and ready to conquer your own financial and personal challenges. With every obstacle she faced, including divorce and homelessness, Danielle unlocked a deeper sense of purpose and a pathway to prosperity that she now shares with women worldwide.

Strap in for an exploration of somatic healing and how it intertwines with our ability to manifest the life we yearn for. We’ll peel back the layers of how our bodies and subconscious minds can harbor limiting patterns that hinder success, and how somatic coaching can guide us to safety and success. Danielle and I examine the delicate dance between the need for security and the pursuit of success, unraveling how one can achieve resilience and consistency without sacrificing their innate need for connection and belonging.

Lastly, we peer into the realm of intuitive business predictions, where prosperity and romance await. I share insights on upcoming milestones and opportunities that could very well reshape your personal and professional landscapes. We also pay homage to the late, great Bob Proctor, whose wisdom and joy continue to influence and uplift us from beyond. Join us for this soulful and strategic episode – it’s an invitation to reshape your relationship with money and to step boldly into a future brimming with potential.

 

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Amber Annette:

Welcome to the Business Psychic Podcast, the show that helps you ignite your soul’s purpose, turn up your creativity and activate sales and marketing magic. I’m your host, amber Annette, and I’m thrilled to be here with you today to explore the depth of what it means to be a woman in business. I believe that business is more than just making money. It’s about making a difference and making your mark. So sit back, get present and let’s dive in and uncover the secrets to building a business with soul, purpose and magic. Welcome back to another episode of the Business Psychic. I’m Amber Annette, I’m your host and I am so excited to bring to you today Danielle Margraf. Let me tell you she is a powerhouse and a leader in the feminine wealth movement, followed by women. Inspiring and no nonsense teaching style. Danielle mixes her spiritual badassery with money and nervous system coach trainings for women with nervous system healing practices to literally rewire your body for more freedom, fulfillment and feminine financial flow. Help me welcome her and Danielle. Let’s dive right in. I have already so many questions that are stirring up for me. I mean like, but let’s start with kind of the basics. Like, how did you get started? Like, let’s hear your journey girl.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, so I’ve always been in the healing arts, right? So over 25 years being in the healing arts and then, about what? 2011, I had two babies under two and found myself getting divorced. And I made a decision right, I had no money, lots of shame. And I realized, as I’m standing at my parents’ house where they retired with these two babies, like what am I going to do? I don’t want to go back to work because I don’t want to put them in daycare, because they couldn’t talk to tell me if anything, would you know, could happen, would happen, that’s my own past trauma, right, and I realized that this was just. I’ve just I made a decision. I was like this ends with me. And you know, when I said this ends with me, while the pain of it was I had no options because I had no money. Right, I’m a smart person. I have a master’s degree, you know, I have many certifications, but I never could figure out the money piece. And so, really, when I said that it was, yes, about I got to figure out this money piece, but more around this idea of I am not going to be handing down, the lineage of shame and unworthiness that seemed to have been, you know, penetrated me like really from a young age, maybe even from birth. So that was really where it sort of started. I sold my engagement ring and went to my wedding band and I paid in full for my first coaching certification and since then I’ve been in the coaching world for 13 years, always on a personal development journey of trying to figure out how to make more fucking money. Like why couldn’t I make the money? And it really was not about money in the way people are thinking of money, like right, like to get more and to have more it was really that I was using money as a spiritual tool to understand what it was mirroring in me, my wounds, and so that was really the path. I always was interested in self-development, mindset manifesting. I had already been in the energy world because I was a yoga instructor and had an energy medicine practice for a long time, but this whole piece was a very significant piece that would take me on a very windy road into poverty and then I’d make $10,000, and then I’d be on food stamps and then I’d make some money, and then I was like you know, and then really the bottom line was I became homeless and I was sleeping on my massage table, and that’s really where everything changed for me.

Amber Annette:

Tell me more about that. So how old are?

Danielle Marggraf:

your kids at that point. So they’re at that point they were like in third and fifth grade, ish around there. Okay. So, young kids, young kids. We had been on our own since they were one and two, right, so they were going into. They weren’t quite in third and fifth, they hadn’t gotten into it. So they were really second and fourth. Let’s say so they were second and fourth, they hadn’t gotten into back into school yet. And where I was renting, they were selling and they were like you got to go and I was like, okay, and I thought, okay, I’ll find somewhere else. And there was nowhere to rent where I live, because it’s a very popular place to live by the water and it’s a very popular place to live and it’s very popular in the summer and it’s very competitive to find any kind of rental because there’s not a lot of rentals because people will buy here and so I couldn’t find anywhere for us to live and I started using money on hotels or right, like I was trying, and I had hardly any money in the bank and I ended up homeless, sleeping on my massage table. I sent my kids for a weekend to go stay with my parents two hours away, and I needed just some space to figure out what I was going to do next. And I woke up in the middle of the night because I was really sleeping so deeply on the massage table. And I woke up at night and I just was crying in the shame spiral and I thought what am I doing? And my clients and I’m sure you run into this too they’ve done so much work. The first thing they’ll say to me when they come sit across, when they say but I’ve done so much work, and so I remember being at that place going, but I’ve done so much work, what else do I need to do? What else do I have to do? And it turned out that as I’m laying there, I’m thinking about all the things that I’ve done the shamanic journeys and the energy work and the reiki and the counseling and just all the things.

Amber Annette:

The therapy coaches.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yes, everything you got it. It’s like. I could write a book on modality Right, it’s like just all the things. And it just turned out that I remember this quote that a coach that I had been following for many years would use a lot, and I never quite got it. I didn’t understand it and it’s sort of cliche in that I’m in the well-filled and I would quote from thinking girl rich, napoleon Hill. But I’ll tell you, this quote is brilliant and the quote is it’s my favorite quote. And the quote is opportunity comes disguised in temporary misfortune or defeat. And for some reason I downloaded this quote in this moment in the shame spiral Right, and I thought and because I had done so much work, I was able to stop and go oh, where’s the opportunity in this? Where do I need to look? And now I’m sleeping in my energy medicine practice. It’s the middle of the summer, everyone had gone home. The bathroom was in the hallway of the shared building right of the offices. I was on the second floor. It was disgustingly hot right Cause the air condition was off because everyone had left the building. It was dark, there was like I could hear noises you know that creepy like old, you know building sort of noises and I thought where, where’s the opportunity here? And I got them, opened my laptop and somehow came on YouTube after YouTube of Polyvival Theory and Nervous System Work and understanding survival, and understanding threat responses, and I was like, oh my God, no wonder why I can’t manifest anything, right, because the truth is we’re always manifesting. However, to be able to manifest what we actually want, to manifest always, for me it would just felt like a great feat, right, I couldn’t manifest a cup of coffee, nevermind manifest you know, thousands of dollars, or just enough to get by, or just enough to not be homeless. And so it turned out that within 24 hours, I was enrolled to be certified as a somatic therapist and I had not taken even one course and I knew this was my path. And since then I’ve done advanced trainings, I’ve weave my somatic work into money work, into wealth work into mindset work, into manifesting work, and they are some of the most powerful, powerful sessions that I’ve ever offered. I mean really, and the programs and weaving it all in like that is really been potent, and I only can do that because it literally took me from, you know, car repossessions and homelessness and food stamps to being able to make, you know, almost a half million dollars now and growing so.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, girl, congratulations, thank you. That’s an amazing story. Thank you, Well done. Yeah, thank you. So, as you were talking, I took a couple of notes here and a couple of things I want to touch on and number. So the first thing is somatic healing, nervous system regulating. Now, I don’t know. I mean, like I’m like you, I’m deep into this beautiful space of self-development and even in, like the online marketing space, right, like I work with a lot of coaches, a lot of coaches listen to this podcast coaches, healers, consultants, intuitives, and how I feel like I’m seeing it everywhere right now. Like the nervous system regulation, somatic healing, and my question to you is has it become like the popular trending topic or is it in my awareness here for a reason, girl?

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, so I think that I’ve been seeing it around right now all over the place. I think that people are starting to catch on that there’s something to this, right. There’s something to this work. I think that, and I do think it’s trendy. I think it’s trendy to call it it used to be trendy to call it self-care. Right Now it’s trendy, I think, in some ways, to everyone’s doing something with the nervous system, right, because it catches people’s attention. You know, I think it’s probably both right. I think that one you know. Listen, we live in a consuming right. We consume, we consume, we consume. I think that there’s so much copy paste going on around. You know what I mean.

Amber Annette:

Yeah.

Danielle Marggraf:

That this is where we all need to do our due diligence around right, like, and I just think, and I think empowerment was the word for a while, you know what? I mean yeah, and so.

Amber Annette:

I think Even as you were talking, you know, when we were talking about all those different modalities. At least for me, some of those different modalities have showed up. I’ve been in this industry for about 10 years and I feel like it’s like something new, almost like every year. Like I remember I was doing this work, it was tapping Like EMT, and tapping was everywhere. Like I felt like, then it was like hypnotherapy, and then it was the EMDR.

Danielle Marggraf:

You know like, I feel like-.

Amber Annette:

NLP like yes. So I feel like every year there’s like and don’t get me wrong, there’s beautiful healing, they are all amazing modalities, right, but I think at what point do you get to? I mean, I don’t know if you, I, go back and forth with this all the time. I mean I believe that our healing is an ongoing journey. It’s not like you’re ever healed, you know. It’s not like there’s ever this like this. Is it? I’m done? I’m healed today. You know you never reach this like final point of completion on this journey and I’m just wondering what your kind of thoughts are on that. I feel like sometimes it’s like always the next thing, yeah so I don’t and yet maybe it’s meant to be always the next thing.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah. So I don’t think this work is the next thing. I think that it is a the way I did. You know, somatic coaching, for me, is all about bringing people into their body, wisdom and tap, having them tap into the subconscious in a way where I’m giving back all the power to them. I’m not doing anything to you, I’m not right. I’m not the healer in this scenario. You are, you know, you are it. What I do believe, though, is that there is, you know, we’re all. We are all born as humans wired for safety, connection and belonging. We’re not wired for success, we’re not wired for wealth, and we could be born rich, but we’re only born rich because we have the ability to build capacity and resilience and to be able to really train and organize ourselves in a way that we can receive more. So I think that, you know, I don’t consider this healing work, although I think it does heal, but I think it’s about rewiring for the success that everybody thinks is so elusive rewiring, reorganizing so that way we are not, because otherwise we’re in an inner conflict. A lot of times, our inner conflict is is that we pair safety and connection and belonging to whatever pattern we grew up with, or whatever pattern that was handed down to us. Right, and so that usually goes against what most of us need to do or be when it comes to success, which is really about really a lot of resilience, really a lot of consistency, discipline, being uncomfortable, right, mavericking our way through, taking risks that’s really what’s required in a lot of ways for success and success in business, and usually that goes against how we have been pattern, and so it’s really about supporting women who want to activate through embodiment and then, from embodiment, want to then be able to authentically express and then, from expression, then being able to attune and attract. Right, because it’s about attuning to what’s already within you in order to be a match, harmoniously, with the vibration that you want to attract. But we can’t do that if what we value is the pattern, right, so we can’t be committed to the pattern and then be committed to the growth. Right, because a paradigm in and of itself, which is just a lot of behaviors and beliefs that are just we’ve heard over and over and over again that become part of our system, our body system, right, our nervous system, which is the command center of our body What’ll happen is is we don’t have the capacity and the resilience when the body or when the nervous system starts to go ah, this is it. This is feel scary, right? If we don’t know how to work with that system and we don’t know ourselves, we don’t know what’s happening in there, right, we will not move forward, we will not expand, because, the truth is, expansion doesn’t necessarily feel safe. My job is to make women feel safe and successful within themselves, right? So there is this rewiring, this reorganizing not so much healing, but healing will take place as a result of them being able to have more movement because they’re more embodied in where they’re at right. We drop the social mask and we really, really tap into sacred self, and that’s where we start, that’s really where we begin.

Amber Annette:

And when you talk about like I don’t know I don’t even know if you said this, but the words I heard is the body knows how do you know that this is something that is calling for you? How do you know what would be three signs that somatic healing might be the thing for you or that this is something that you would benefit from?

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, I think that if you’ve done a lot of strategy work, right, like if you keep choosing to work, maybe in your business. You’ve done a lot of strategy. You want another tactic. You wanna figure out what else you have to do, but every time you do that you don’t seem to get that much farther along the path. Right, that could be one. Another one is that you notice you’re in the same pattern over and over again, right? Like even if you have a little bit of like movement, patterns and cycles. Right, you’re just in the same pattern. You’re like how did I get here again? What is going on? Why am I here again? And your results tell you everything, right. So the third thing would be is look at your results. Right. If your results are showing you that they’re, the feedback you’re getting is that this is not right. I’m not where I wanna be here. I’m not feeling the way I wanna feel, or I didn’t know. I thought if I dot this I would feel a different way, and you haven’t. It’s probably an indication that there is something else going on in there that can that, where somatic work could support you. I’ll tell you, it’s really interesting. I had a client right before you and doing this, being with you today, and the client said to me that she we did a session and she said I have been asking this question for 20 years. She has walked on fire. She has done like there was some crazy thing where she put herself in a. She did some program where they put them in a like a casket and put them in the ground Like she was burying a lot, oh my gosh. Right, like these extreme things, and she said they never worked. And I said it’s cause it’s always been in you, right, when you’re looking outside for the thing, for the answer, for someone to answer it for you. And I always say I don’t have the answer, but I know you have the answer and it’s my job to track right. I track people, I track what’s happening and I track patterns and I track right and literally what’s happening in your body is what’s happening in your life. And so this woman left with this answer that she’s been at for a question she’s been asking for 20 years and she was like, oh my God, this was like, so powerful. And so Life changing right, yeah, and I think that you know there’s different versions of somatic work, right? So I’m not somatic in like, let’s go, you know. I think now they have something called somatic exercise or something where right Someone means body, right. So somatic can be used for a lot of different things, but for me, I’m talking about the inner body. I’m talking about the inner body and the inner world, and that’s what we’re working with.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah, very cool, very cool. I mean, like I said, I’ve been seeing so much kind of you know, in social media and emails and all the things, so I love the explanation around that. So what about from like a lot of attraction perspective? You know, I heard you kind of reference in there like so when somebody’s you know kind of they’re thinking, man, I’m doing all the right things, I’m you know, I’m doing my best to you know, work on my mindset and think positive thoughts and taking inspired action, and when you see those people that have been like doing all the right things, right, danielle, and then they’re still not manifesting or the things that they’re desiring are still not, you know, happening, is it typically in your experience, because of what’s still happening in their body or on a subconscious level?

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, so I think, sometimes, when we you know, many years ago I created a program called Heels to Manifest and it was a 30 day experience that really took someone from panic to possibility. And the whole idea of that is that when you’ve experienced trauma, right, and the mind doesn’t always remember, think about, think about a memory, it’s like, oh, I’m gonna share this story with you, but I don’t know if I know all the timelines and I can’t remember which exactly came first. The mind forgets, the mind does not remember, but the body knows. The body always remembers, because the body, the subconscious, is like a black box on an airplane. It records everything that’s stored in the body. Okay, so what happens is that when we start doing any kind of manifesting work or law of attraction work, right there, the idea is is that we want to be a magnet, we want to attract right, but really from a somatic lens. We need to first attune to access that feeling first within us so we can harmonize with that energy to be able to be attracting what we are a match for. So, like I said earlier, we’re always manifesting, but we’re not always manifesting what we want right, but we’re manifesting what we be right. So the truth is is that when the nervous system is involved and we are in survival say, fight, flight, spawn, freeze we’re in some sort of intense response. Right, we’re in a response that is like this you know, will not let us think or hold the focus or thought on the thing we say we want. That is where I think it goes wrong a lot of the time, because you cannot be in survival and be able to be free enough, peaceful enough, joyful enough, restful enough, excited enough to hold that thought of what you say you want without all these constricting, contracted thoughts that come in, that pinch off the flow. And so what we want to do is a lot of our work, right, like my work in Six Figure, phoenix and in our private work. It is all on this idea of first we need to somatically attune to what that is, and we get to look at all the things that become contracted. What are the thoughts that are constricting this, what is going on in there, what is the emotions that got stuck in there, what has it been? And when we start doing that, we start opening ourselves up to more expansion and more receiving. Then we can be in attraction. But if you’re only thinking that attraction is a magnet that pulls it in, then, number one, what you’re saying is it’s not already here, it’s separate of you and you got to try to get it. And if you’re going to try to get it, it means you don’t already have it. And if you don’t already have it, then you already are feeling in lack and in scarcity. Boom, right, it’s like. And so we need to attune first. And I think a lot of people spend so much time trying to get it that they are not spending enough time attuning first to what it where it is inside of them. I just did an exercise with my group yesterday we call it integration and one of the things that came up was this idea that nobody could hold a pleasurable thought for where they want to go longer than, say, 30 seconds or a minute, before a contracting thought came in Right Like a catastrophe something. And there’s truth in that, because if we’re wired for safety, we’re always looking for the danger. So we actually need to practice being in pleasure. We need to practice believing, and that’s a capacity thing. If your body doesn’t have the capacity to hold it, then what happens is is you don’t have the capacity to hold it, and if you don’t have the capacity to hold it, you certainly don’t have the capacity to attract it.

Amber Annette:

Interesting. So let me ask you a question here, sure Without judging, based off of just kind of what we see, I think about like people that are millionaires, right, like we’re talking about like let’s just talk about money, let’s talk about wealth for a minute. I think and I live and breathe, like all things, like I love reading about law of attraction and manifesting. I have, like for as long as I can remember, and even to this day, I think one of the things that is always kind of like honestly flabbergasted me is like universe. How could a really shitty human being like the drug cartel guy be making billions of dollars right From like putting like horrible drugs out into the world and having all these like icky people work for him and like push drugs, like he gets to be like a billionaire and make all this money and have all this money? And then there’s good people out there in the world that are, like you know, doing this inner work, right, that are you know doing trying to help be healers and guides and mentors and leaders and like really good people and they’re like struggling to pay their fucking bills. Like something is off here. Universe Like help me, help me understand you know how somebody like there’s like no way that that dude has done this inner work right. Like that’s an assumption, I guess. But so how do you, how do you look at situations like that?

Danielle Marggraf:

So, first of all, the drug cartel or whoever the bad guys are right, they don’t carry. They don’t carry emotional debt. Okay, First of all, money is neutral. Money is a neutral. There’s an energy. The energy of money is neutral, right.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, it doesn’t care. It doesn’t care if you’re a good person or a bad person, for sure.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, but we sensitive intuitives, healers, coaches, consult these women, these leaders, visionaries right, we are these divine feminine spirits, right, who carry this emotional debt. And the emotional debt is worry, and worried about feeling greedy and scared they’re going to be not be a good girl and worried that they’re not going to be accepted, and worried that they don’t belong and are afraid that they’re not going to fit and they’re afraid they’re going to be rejected. And they’re, and they’re afraid they’re going to hurt someone so they don’t put themselves out there and they’re afraid they’re going to be canceled and they feel shame. Who am I? Who am I to do it? Who am I Right? Who do I think I am? Or what’s wrong with me? Right? That’s the difference, because that emotional debt keeps us out in a state of poverty, and not just financial poverty, but emotional poverty.

Amber Annette:

And so because we’re in a state of emotional poverty.

Danielle Marggraf:

our vibration is that of poverty, where the bad guy I don’t know that he’s pondering his shame, I don’t know that he is, I’m sure he’s not girl, I don’t know that he is, you know, thinking about his guilt. I don’t know that he right, and so, really, and that is where the relationship to the emotion becomes just as important as the emotion itself. Yeah, and if the relationship to the emotion is I’m bad, it’s judgment, it’s it’s I don’t deserve it, it’s I’m unworthy, I’m unlovable. That is why, and so that’s why you’ve heard, I’m sure, people say, like if we could just get good money in the hands of good people.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, we could change the world.

Danielle Marggraf:

I mean, it’s true.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah, and I mean some of the other ones you know I think about out there. You know, like money, as energy Girl, I read energy all day long and I sometimes like struggle with the concept of like money being a vibration, right I there have been times again where I’m like I’ve been, I’m so high, I’m so happy on gratitude, I am like elated in a space of euphoria with how good life is in my house and I can just go in these like radical gratitude tangents, right, and I’ll be like man, that had to have been that, that feeling had to have been worth a million bucks. You know, like I used to catch myself kind of saying that and yet money doesn’t match your vibration in a way. I don’t know if you, but it matches your expectation and so I’m just is my, is like what I’ve, is what I’ve always believed. Money matches your, your expectation of it, because it is neutral, you know. And so I’m just wondering with that word like the law of assumption. You know, a law of assumption is very different to me than the law of attraction. How do you see law of assumption playing in with with this work?

Danielle Marggraf:

Well, I mean, law of assumption is all about belief, right. Belief is all when we end. Belief is just a matter of you know constantly what we hear and what we think about over and over and over again. That’s a belief, right. A belief just is really just. Someone says something. If you think about it enough, if you buy into it enough, if you hear it enough, it becomes a belief, right? So the truth is is that when we are assuming anything to be true and believe it right, then we will create it, we will see it to be true, right, and so we have this amazing ability to have perception right, and so this, this higher faculty of perception, create can create for us and support us in this law of assumption. Right, because we can assume that it’s all true, it’s all real, it’s all now, it’s all here, because there is no state of time, really, right, we, it’s time doesn’t exist and so we could just assume it to be true. I think what happens is is when we’re doing conditions, right, I did so much gratitude that must have been a million dollar gratitude, right? If it was a belief, you wouldn’t even thought it, right, it probably wouldn’t even been a thought. But because there’s a separation, still right. It’s oh, did I? And not to say that you said this, but that was an example because you used it but it’s like oh, was I grateful enough to be able to match the million?

Amber Annette:

Was really the question.

Danielle Marggraf:

For sure it’s so fascinating because assumption is, I just assume it to be true you know you go to the store, it’s done, it’s done. And really the thing is, is what you want to do is so I work faculty, right? So you want to look at what is it that you want to be done, right? What is it that you want to be done right? And let’s say it’s a million dollars, I want a million dollars to be done, right, you got to work with the belief of that million day in and day out, but you need to really, more than that, work with the feeling of it. Right, what is the feeling of it? And then what? What is it that is getting in the way of it? So you know, I’m all about. I like to go into the pinching right, like meaning what is pinching it off, what is the belief, right, like so tracking the ideas that are pinching off that million right. I have to do more for it, what will I have to do for it, or what you know. It feels sort of elusive. It feels still like a theory or right, like what’s going on there, because it’s those beliefs that create a feeling, that feeling that that does affect the nervous system. Because if the nervous, if the, if the feeling isn’t there and the nervous system can’t get on board with that, it is going to always stay a theory.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, Well, it and it brings me back to it keeps you in a state of fight or flight.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, it will always keep you in a state, fight or fawn or freeze. I mean you could be frozen, freeze and still be in movement. You’re in collapse. But a lot of you know a lot of clients I was talking to one a few days ago and you know we’re talking about how she goes into freeze because it’s unsafe. You know there was something out that was happening was unsafe, and then she goes into fawn. So the people that she was around it was unsafe to be around them. Someone said something. She felt like she wasn’t like, she felt like she didn’t belong and then she goes into fawning Right, please, and appease to get you like she’s giving away her power. So you’ll like me, so you’ll so, and it’s really not to be liked as much as it is to be safe, right. So she would feel safe, and so there’s so many different ways that we can be in a trauma response. You know that we can be in that response that are so subtle to us because they become so normal to us, yeah, and so when we’re working with any law, like you know law of assumption, law of attraction, law of vibration, law of giving right when we’re using all these laws, right, we, you know, I think of them as, like you know, even though they’re universal laws, but I think of them as, like the stop sign and you know, the traffic light of the universe, right, am I on a red? Am I on a yellow? Am I on a green? What’s happening? Right, yeah, because they exist. It’s red, yellow or green. That’s a fact. But what’s happening inside me is more important, because then I need to understand how am I working with this law?

Amber Annette:

Yeah.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah.

Amber Annette:

So I’ve been a, I’ve been a psychic business coach for almost 10 years and I have had some clients that I work with Danielle, that man and just I have channeled the coolest freaking marketing ideas for them. We get them taking action. We get Facebook ads roll in like boom, no sales, or like they just like, or they just like can’t. You know, like they can’t break through this, like I call it like an energetic or financial ceiling. You know they just can’t break through. And I got to be honest with you as I’ve been listening to you, I was like I feel like this is like that missing piece for so many things along the way that even as a very gifted psychic and intuitive myself, I’m like I don’t know what, I don’t know what else it could be. But I can be honest with you in this moment and say you know, I think that’s never once have I ever been like I think we need to do something to regulate nervous system. I think it might be somatic. I think this might be a you know something with the body holding on to you know the trauma or the you know that being in that, to me it is. That’s never been the thing that’s come up. It’s always been. You know how can we? You know, just keep. How can we get you into a place of feeling good? But you know that’s one thing that we can’t do is feel our clients emotions for them. So, yeah, yeah, very so, tell me a little bit. So, if people want to like I mean I hope everybody else with I was like, if you listen to my past episodes, I feel like I don’t stop talking, right along with my guest, and I was absolutely seriously like usually like people are, like I talk a lot and I was really spellbound and I was really captivated by this. So I know for myself and hopefully my listeners, we can dive into more of this work that you’re doing in the world. I feel, of my heart, like totally like I always say, like wholeheartedly feel like this is what’s needed and we need, you know, more people like you doing good work out there in the world. So thank you for all you do and just be able to, you know, pull all those different pieces, being able to empower her, help her, help her find her place of own inner healing. It’s amazing. So well done, sister, thank you. Thank you so much. I appreciate you. Yeah, so now in true business psychic fashion. This is the part of the episode where I like to tap in and see what I can kind of sense and feel. Give you a little business reading here. And then I have a very important question that I ask all of my guests at the very end, so I’m excited. I’m excited for that Because because we talked before the show and you don’t know what the question is, so it’s always fun.

Danielle Marggraf:

I don’t.

Amber Annette:

All right, so let’s. And so sometimes these are like sometimes things will come up for business, Sometimes it’ll be for and I love that we’re coming into 2024. So let me just kind of see what starts coming here. So the first thing anything about a move coming up for you this year or soon, what moving?

Danielle Marggraf:

I would love to move, so I’m going to be moving. Yeah.

Amber Annette:

I would say like, like, I feel like July 4th, like the universe is showing me the month of July, so I’m not sure if that’s like moving month or if you’re like settled into your new place in July, but it feels to me like a beautiful and well deserved like Lux upgrade. It feels like mmm, it feels and it feels like a space that like you’re like Holy shit, I did it, I got here, it’s. It is a real up level for you, real well deserved up level. So that’s that’s the first thing. So a lot of life stuff kind of coming in here.

Danielle Marggraf:

Now are you in a partnership, I would say I’m in a situation ship.

Amber Annette:

So I feel like there’s going to be somebody new coming in in 2024.

Danielle Marggraf:

Really.

Amber Annette:

I do. I feel like September. And damn, is he good looking. Ooh like very like, really like, exceptionally like attractive man. It feels like September and it feels like, I would almost say, unexpected. However, I feel like you’ve been holding the vibration and the vision of what you want for a long time. You’re very clear on what you know, what you got to do, and it’s like, once it comes in, like I would even go as far as to say, with the universe is sharing with me here. This might be one of your best years ever.

Danielle Marggraf:

I’m for multiple reasons.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, for multiple reasons. Now you’re, you’re older child. How old is your older child now? 15. 15. Okay, so is it a girl? Yes, okay. So I also feel like, well, that would maybe match, maybe for driver’s license or something like that. I don’t know if she’s. I feel like she has a significant milestone coming up this year, that something that happens for her and I don’t know that it’s the 16 drivers thing, that doesn’t feel right but something also really positive and significant is going to be showing up for her this year. Is she quite creative at like artists?

Danielle Marggraf:

Very highly creative.

Amber Annette:

Okay. So I feel like she gets like a medal or an award or like some type of like really cool, like very cool opportunity opens up for her that you are in the best position to be able to support her with it. Invest in this opportunity. There might be some like travel involved for her. She’s asked to go somewhere abroad, something along those lines.

Danielle Marggraf:

So she’s already picking up something France. Stop it. Okay, I just talked to the travel agent, with her birthdays in June, so we were talking about sometime around this June.

Amber Annette:

That’s amazing. Yeah, that feels like that’s happening. Okay, just so you know, business feels like it keeps it keeps going, like I feel like you are in your own flow right now. I see things steadily increasing I don’t see like any massive dips or anything like that and it feels like almost fine tuning and feeling even better about what you are doing. I feel like the next Okay, so the next thing that it feels like is important. I’m seeing like the dial being turned on audience. More people need to know about you. Yes, that’s the play this year, that’s the investment this year is being able to speak to many. I felt it during this call and I’m sure that our listeners felt it during this podcast episode. Quality and the depth of your, of your message is so potent, danielle. We need more people to hear about it, and so that’s the play this year, that’s the investment this year. I would say it’s almost counter to like what you teach right, which is to go within, and it doesn’t even more strategy. I’m saying this is the year like the power play of strategy. So, whether it’s with a Facebook ads expert or SEO, I would double down in the lead generation if I were you this year, because even if you double down, it’s going to 10 X the return. I would even say 20 X the return. Wow. I also see Are you hosting a retreat this year, your first retreat?

Danielle Marggraf:

or anything like that, first, but we host one every year and we’re we’re launching a new program, application only it’s called sacred woman and only eight. Yeah, and we are actually going to be on site three times live for these women and we I run it. I used to be a red tent women’s group facilitator and I’m a red tent circles, and so we’re running the whole year as a community with these women and, yeah, so we do that. And then every year I go to Sedona for our part.

Amber Annette:

That’s going to be, I think, your favorite part of your business this year.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, I agree, I’m very much looking forward to it.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So that’s what I got for you, girl.

Danielle Marggraf:

I love it. Thank you for all of that. That was beautiful, so awesome.

Amber Annette:

Ready for final question? Yes, so you could connect and receive a message from anybody in spirit today. Who would it be? Bob Proctor oh yeah, I love it. So he comes in with like his instant, like chuckle and laugh. He shaped your, he says, he acknowledges he got to shape your life in a lot of ways through his words, his, he changed your life. Yes, he did, and he, in spirit, acknowledges that and feels that. And now you get to take on some of his same work and you get to keep it going and you get to be that ripple effect that he used to talk about and that you used to dream of being able to do. You’re, you’re doing it. Thank you Beautiful. Did you ever have, did you have, something from him? Do you have something of his or something from him? A book signed, anything like that? A book signed? Yeah, and shows me that book signed.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, and we actually had a few conversations and our last conversation I shared with him about this work because I said, yeah, the mindset workers great, this manifesting workers great, but we’re missing a piece that people need to know this piece. And he said to me when this is all over, because it was during COVID he said you’re going to come and you’re going to come here and we’re going to. I want you to tell me all about it and we’re going to do something. And then he passed before passed away.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah, but I so. That’s why he said you’re out here doing that work. Yes.

Danielle Marggraf:

And I do feel him like I do.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, yeah, true thoughts. Yeah, danielle, thank you so much for being here, Amber.

Danielle Marggraf:

thank you.

Amber Annette:

You’re so amazing. I want to, and this was magic, this was amazing, and I can’t wait for my listeners to connect more with you. So thank you so much for being here, and if you want to learn more about Danielle, about her amazing work that she’s putting out into the world, please make sure you go and check out the show notes. We have links to her website there, and I believe she even has a free gift for you that we will include a link there for.

Danielle Marggraf:

Yeah, actually I am hosting a one day event called six figure frequency. I’m hosting it January 22. It’s normally $47 to do the day. It is beyond well worth more than that. But if we can maybe create some sort of something where maybe they drop Amber right, they let me know that if they’re coming from you, I’d like to offer them a free ticket to that event.

Amber Annette:

Oh, that’s awesome. I’m coming to the event.

Danielle Marggraf:

I’m going to drop the name Amber and come to the event. Yeah.

Amber Annette:

Awesome. Well, danielle, thank you again so much for being here and until next time, go be in your magic. Thanks for listening to this episode. I hope it inspired and ignited your entrepreneurial spirit, in turn of your intuition and trust in the universe. Make sure to check out the show notes section for access to my transformation suite All of free resources, tools and content to help you grow your business while saying true to your soul’s purpose. Until next week, go make some business magic soul sister.

 

Danielle Marggraf

Danielle Marggraf

Somatic Therapist, Teacher, Healer, Reiki Master, Red Tent Women’s Group Facilitator, Energy Medicine Practitioner, Writer and Speaker.

Danielle Marggraf is a leader in the feminine wealth  movement. Followed by women worldwide for her inspiring and no-nonsense teaching style, Danielle mixes her spiritual badassery with money  and nervous system coach trainings for women with nervous system healing practices to literally rewire your body for more freedom, fulfillment and feminine financial flow.

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Exploring the Impact of Psychic Abilities in Business and Personal Life with Judi Jamieson

Exploring the Impact of Psychic Abilities in Business and Personal Life with Judi Jamieson

Ever wished you could communicate with your intuition like it’s an old friend? Join us for a profound conversation with Judi Jamieson, a seasoned intuitive and psychic development teacher. We dive into the heart of spirituality, sharing our personal experiences with psychic abilities and the importance of trusting our intuition. Judi shares her insights on the role of spirituality in the world of women in business, the power of personal growth, and the need to shift away from any close-mindedness.

We get candid about our transition from psychic readings to teaching, reflecting on the unique challenges and experiences we faced. Hear about the limitations of one-on-one readings and how teaching can make a more profound impact on people’s lives. Relive the moment with us as we recount a moving experience where we guided a departed friend to cross over. We also delve into the eternal question – do we all have psychic abilities and gifts? We share our journeys of discovering our gifts and the ripple effects they had on our relationships, especially with family members who didn’t believe in these abilities.

Finally, we journey into the mysterious realm of channeling and connecting with guides, describing the sensations that come with it. We talk about how we use this connection for various purposes and the role of meditations and dreams in psychic development. Our guest, Judi, shares her exciting plans for her business and her drive to create in-person spiritual experiences. Join us as we explore the exhilarating path of following your intuition, growing as individuals, and how to flourish in life by embracing the extraordinary gifts within each of us.

 

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Amber Annette:

Welcome to the Business Psychic Podcast, the show that helps you ignite your soul’s purpose, turn up your creativity and activate sales and marketing magic. I’m your host, amber Annette, and I’m thrilled to be here with you today to explore the depth of what it means to be a woman in business. I believe that business is more than just making money. It’s about making a difference and making your mark. So sit back, get present and let’s dive in and uncover the secrets to building a business with soul, purpose and magic. Welcome back to another episode of the Business Psychic. I’m Amber Annette and you guys just stay where you are. You are not going to want to leave this episode. I am here with my seriously new bes t friend, Judi Jamieson. Let me tell you she is about as psychic as you can possibly get and she is absolutely amazing. I’m so excited to share this conversation with you. Judi Jamieson is an intuition and psychic development teacher and helps you apply your gifts in every aspect of your life to not only create but live an exceptional life, whatever that may be for you. Fully utilizing the true power of your gifts is not just for when the shit hits the fan or you are just curious about something. It’s a way of life, always being plugged in, tapped in and getting the healing insight, guidance and next steps without having to meditate or use various tools. And let me tell you, her teaching style is straight to the point, without all of the time wasting and all of the fluff, with a loving soul sister ass kicking in the mix. Judi, I cannot freaking wait for this conversation. I loved you when I met you. Thank goodness for Facebook, but I’m so happy you’re here. Welcome yeah.

Judi Jamieson:

Thank you for that introduction. I got all tingly and I know about you, but for me that’s one of my signs. Like we’re in, we’re plugged in. We’re, you know, I call them truth bumps, truth bumps, truth bumps.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I’m like, when you get for me, it’s like three different things that’ll happen. It’s truth bumps, tears or triggers. And if one of those three or sometimes all three things happen for me, I’m like OK, universe, what are you trying to tell me here? I’m leaning in. So I would say, usually when people and if you go back and you listen to other episodes, people say the same thing every single time they’re like oh, it’s game time, we’re on. I’m like covered in goosebumps. I’m covered. So welcome to the show. Yeah, happy to be here. So I’m going to share really quickly how we met, and it was just a few weeks ago actually. I had put something out on Facebook with a very just like genuine disposition of. So one of the things that I do on the show is I give readings to all of my guests. It’s just, it’s fun, it’s like it’s beautiful, it’s transformational. And Matthew Perry died and I was like, and one of the things that I’ve done is channeled past-over celebrities, so I put this simple post out. That’s like I would love to me, I would love to do a reading for a business owner who would also like to connect with Matthew Perry. And girl, you saw the thread. People came at me and were like, oh, it’s too soon, you can’t connect with him, yet he’s already showing me his arms up. He says you can’t connect with him and I was like, oh, but you can. Ok. Like it was just ridiculous the amount of like pushback I got and the amount of like you can’t, you can’t, you can’t. And I know you and me had a, briefly before we hit record, like when people tell me I can’t do something, man, a first of all red flag. Like anybody who tells anybody you can’t do this, I mean that’s all about that’s? To me that’s just like a reflection, all about yourself, not about me. But I just it really just stirred up something. And you comment and you’re like, girl, let’s jam, let’s talk on all the things. And we did. We had a separate session from this where we were like, ok, what are we going to jam about? What are we going to talk about? That’s how we met. You commented on the thread saying like I got your back, girl, like I agree with you. You know, you’re in agreement with me that some of these, like you know, especially coming from like the spiritual community, you know like we’re supposed to be the ones that are the light leaders in this, that are paving the way for people to step into their gifts and to feel like that’s your space, that’s your tribe, that’s your community of people that do have your back and are so open. So what are your thoughts on this? I mean, it was just crazy to me how close minded that entire group of people that came at me where I was like geez, oh all right.

Judi Jamieson:

Well, my thoughts on that is I get that too, being in the social media field with people spewing stupid, ignorant, hateful, you know, uneducated, whatever stuff. When someone tells me I can’t, right with me. Also, that’s a red flag. First of all, who are you to tell me what I can and cannot do, let alone who I can and cannot talk to? Right? So that’s like when I think, when you’re psychic or working with your gifts, like I look at it as a unique. It’s a relationship or marriage, right, and every marriage is different, right. So nobody can tell you what you should or should not do or what is right and wrong. That’s the whole part of spirituality, right, it’s a personal journey of self-discovery and growth, right. The other thing, when someone tells you, you know, when you look at all you were talking about, like past beliefs, give them a certain amount of time or do this or do that which, if you want to talk to Matthew Perry right, and he just crossed over an hour ago if he wants to talk to you, he’s going to talk to you, right? So I mean, if he’s busy doing his own thing, he’s going to do his own thing, right? So I don’t think that’s like. Maybe these people took it as like an invasion of privacy. Let them grieve or do whatever it is that they’re doing on the other side, but nah, yeah, I mean, and that was like.

Amber Annette:

Some of the comments were like oh, you can’t connect with spirit. I’ve been a. The one lady was like I’ve been a medium for 30 years and you cannot connect with anybody until they’ve had at least 45 days of healing. And I was like what are? How do you know that’s?

Judi Jamieson:

her belief system Right.

Amber Annette:

I don’t believe that and that has not been my experience. I have. I mean, I don’t know if you have, but like the same day that people have crossed over, I’ve connected with them and had intimate, beautiful messages of I’m it’s, I’m whole it’s, I’m at peace, I’m at, I’m at a soul level instantly. You was like so again, yeah, we all have our own belief systems and you know, when they conflict I, my beliefs, conflict with other people’s beliefs all the time. I’m okay with that. I have a graceful release of it and I wish you on your way. But I don’t come at like I would never. I think just being a. I consider myself a spiritual light leader and that, to me, is just not the way that we are going to pave to me a cumulative degree, the importance of art, don’t get me wrong. That cannot go away and it has asked me to choose where I should start and I could spend my without even thinking about it. I feel like all people are saying it out with love, because it’s interesting that they have to Mohammed and keep the early. Dayaaaaaaaa, mother, grab me my New Caran Ardek. This is normal. Wait, is Jane a new Karen? I haven’t heard from her. Jane’s a new Karen. I feel like Karen’s got like I feel like Karen, I feel like before Jane, I went after I think we went after Karen. Hard enough, let’s shift it up. Let’s go with.

Judi Jamieson:

Jane or Felicia? What happened to Felicia? Yeah, exactly exactly.

Amber Annette:

So I think you know I just I mean and don’t get me wrong I do and I know that you do too. I believe in a level of psychic etiquette, right, like I do believe that there is. You know, when you have this gift and you have this ability, you do want to be mindful and respectful and kind. You know, to others, like I learned very early on, you don’t just go up to ladies at Target and be like, hey, I just want to let you know your mom is with you right now, and I learned that very early on. Like you, you do have to decipher when you have an invitation and when you do not. Right, and that’s part of, but that’s part of like growing and learning. You know you have to screw up so you can learn from it. Yeah, yeah, I’ll never forget, like my one of my very first readings that I ever did. I mean I’m talking probably like reading three or four. I told this woman I was like I see, like you’re going to get a divorce, I see that there’s an affair, I see that your mom passes away in the next five years. I mean I just like spewed everything I saw and felt for this woman and she called me the next day and she’s like I have just felt really unsettled by it and I, if she hadn’t given me that message, that conversation, I could have kept going that way, you know. But it I learned by doing that, reading, that there are some things you have to put that psychic filter on. There is a certain way to deliver that makes people feel empowered, enlightened, at a place of feeling calm and supported and have a path illuminated for them that is for their highest good, versus, you know, shutting down and kind of scaring people with all of things. Now, in all fairness, all the things happened that I said were going to happen, but it doesn’t mean we have to deliver them like that. So I think the delivery is just as important as the message do you?

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now, I learned years ago through the same experiences, Years ago when I used to do readings because I don’t do them anymore, I solely focus on teaching. If I was with somebody and I saw that man, they had a whole shit show coming up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I would always make sure to. Okay, look, this is what’s coming up, this is what’s going to happen. How can we prepare you to manage and get through this shit show, which is actually a learning curve or an up level? Right, that’s how I look at it, A transformation. Yeah, this is what’s coming up. There’s no avoiding it. Okay, but you can make it less painful and get through it faster, and this is why it’s coming up and how to really like oh, come out of it. Brian Franken, Franken Franken what is that? Franken Spankin? I was mixing two words together.

Amber Annette:

And Spankin. It was the game that I liked it.

Judi Jamieson:

Brian Franken knew.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I mean I agree and I think that I believe and I don’t know. I think I’m close to around 8,000 readings that I’ve done and everyone. I get a little bit. I just get a little bit better. I get a little bit clearer. I’m kind of like you. I’ve shifted over the last few years and definitely more into the coaching and teaching space versus just doing the readings. But and why do you so? I’m curious now like what made you kind of feel compelled to stop doing as many of the readings and kind of get more into that leadership role and that teacher role?

Judi Jamieson:

Like anybody right, when you first start doing this stuff, it’s a everybody starts somewhere right and you have a whole learning curve and things that you’re gonna go through and the path and purpose is gonna change. But I stopped doing readings because I realized I wasn’t. I was attracting a bunch of people who pretty much weren’t taking it seriously and actually wanted me to lie to them. They just wanted me to tell them what they wanted to hear, some magical thing that make them feel better. And I was attracting a bunch of people who just I realized that it’s not. I don’t wanna work with people or do readings for people who are looking at it as entertainment or shits and giggles. Yeah, like I wanna do readings to help people, I don’t wanna do readings for people who are like, well, is Bobby coming back? How many kids am I gonna have? Like, dude girlfriend, how about what your future holds for you and the bigger picture? And you know what I mean, who you’re supposed to become and why you’re here. And so that was one of the reasons why I stopped doing readings. The other reason, too, was you know, like as an individual, you can only. There’s only so many hours in a day and you’re one person. You can only work with so many people in one day and then you’re capped and I found that I was exhausted and I kept a lot of the same themes kept coming up for me and I was like you know what I just wanna? I wanna help more people on a grander scale, and I can’t do that doing one-on-one work. So that’s when I shifted into let me focus on teaching, cause then it’s more. I’m helping a lot more people in a much more impactful way. You know, when you know how to use your gifts for yourself and be your own psychic, that’s way more beneficial and empowering than go into one for a quick puzzle piece tidbit. I wanna give you good meat and potatoes. You know that you could use the rest of your life. So that’s why I stopped doing readings and switched to teaching.

Amber Annette:

I feel you on every level of what you just said, I mean, especially when it comes to you know, I used to joke and it was, but at the same time I was serious. I was like my goal is to put myself out of business so that everybody trusts themselves first you know, and I think, like as a good psychic, like that’s truth. You want people to be able to make those connections for themselves. You wanna help them be able to see the signs for themselves, to you know, have the validation come from within, versus always having to go to see a psychic or, you know, a healer or whatever. It is Not that I don’t, I mean. I still absolutely love, I think, what what psychics and mediums can do for people. It can be an awakening, I mean. So I don’t know how your gifts were activated, but that’s how I realized I was a psychic. I went to see a psychic for the very first time. I literally had the like. I’m not kidding me, Judi. I had the. I had the image of like a crystal ball in my head and the like. That was like the like, what I actually thought a psychic was. I had no clue what was that. My whole life was about to change. I went in. I had a beautiful reading. She connected me with my dad. It was just unlike anything I’d ever experienced or thought I was going to experience. And at the end of my reading she said you know, do you have any questions? And I said yeah, why do I keep seeing things and hearing things Like why is this happening? And she looked at me and she says don’t you understand? You’re supposed to do what I do. And I looked back at her and my response to her. I kind of tilted my head and I went, oh yeah, I remember now and it was I get, I get.

Judi Jamieson:

I know, I was just gonna say you can’t see them, but I got them too, yeah.

Amber Annette:

I every like I’ve told that story a million times and when I tell you the exchange that happened in that one second changed the like the direction of my entire life. Within a couple of days, I was doing readings for people at my kitchen table that I had never met before, connecting them with their past loved. I mean it was like there was no dimmer switch. It was like straight up, like lights, camera action. I mean it was within a couple of weeks and I was doing, I had group readings booked of like four or five people. It just it was crazy so and it just hasn’t stopped since then. Right, so I was what I feel like now. The word I use is I was, my gifts were activated by her and I now really believe that I do the same thing. We were talking before I went live. I was like I joke all the time that I have like my own psychic MLM company because, like, I have this downline of all these psychics, but at the same time, it is so true and so I’m just curious does it kind of happen with you and your gift when, like, people work with you Like the same thing? It just like it comes alive in them?

Judi Jamieson:

It depends on who I’m working with. There was a two years ago one of my friends suddenly died and the next two, three days after his death, you know I was working and you know I got responsibilities, I got work to do, like I got stuff to do and he kept coming to me and talking to me and talking to me and finally I was like dude, like I’m sorry, but like I got work to do, I got things I got to take care of. I can’t spend all day long talking to you. And at that point he was not crossed over yet. He was still you know grief and felt unworthy and let people down and all kinds of. He had his own garbage he was still carrying that he couldn’t release. And one of my girlfriends called me and she’s like hey, have you heard from so-and-so? And I’m like, yeah, he won’t leave me alone. Like I feel bad, like I, you know, I want to talk to him, I want to help him, but I got stuff to do. And she was like, well, why don’t you just send him to me, because she’s not a medium quote-unquote. I mean, everybody has gifts, yeah, everybody does you don’t? it’s not like a generational. You know you have to come from a lineage of it, you know, or? totally agree gifted people, like everybody is gifted. But my girlfriend was like, well, why don’t you send them to me? I’d love to talk to him. I’m like, oh, that would be great. So I just started talking to her and walking her through how to open up and receive him, as opposed to going out, search and seek. I’m like you know, babe, I’m like it’s all about receiving, um, and immediately she was able to like Plug in and start talking to him and she’s like, oh, all of a sudden I felt guided to go to the fridge and grab a beer. She’s like I don’t drink beer. Which was our friend, was a big beer drinker. Yeah, I’m like, you’re in, you’re good, and like for the next few days she was getting random messages from him that she knew clear as day was him. And then all of a sudden she calls me out. She’s like, holy shit. She’s like my father’s been dead for however many years and she’s like now I’m getting messages from my dad and I was like high five there. You see, it’s not really. I think people make it harder than what it is and, based on what they see in the Hollywood movies or what religion or their upbringing tells them Squashes, all that stuff she was, I mean their beliefs, really is like yeah yeah, I.

Amber Annette:

You’re programming, you’re pre-programming, yeah and I don’t know about you, but, like before my gifts opened up, I didn’t really have any, like I said. I mean, I really knew nothing. So I kind of went into the experience, eyes wide open, heart wide open. All I had was like, literally, the image of a crystal ball. Otherwise, that was it, you know. I mean so, and I think that did make it easier to be able to trust and know that was coming to me and through me was real, because I had no preconceived notions of what I thought or what I, what it was going to be like, or I knew I could trust it, because I’d never had anything like that before in my life and I’m oh my gosh, I’m just so grateful, yeah, I’m sure that I am so grateful that I did too. So let’s talk a little bit about About, like, the gifts, you know, and I know that we both kind of have a similar belief that Everybody has this ability within them, you know. So I call it the psychic spectrum, like I believe that everybody is on the psychic spectrum. And you know, just like. I think probably the best analogy is like thinking like, just like everybody can sing. I believe everybody can connect and some of us are just better singers, right, like some of us are like gifted, like Whitney Houston and Mariah Carey and now I’m really dating myself with using those names, but that’s okay, that’s really fine. Um, I think everybody is gifted, and then there’s other people that can’t sing very well, you know. So, like, I think of it as like a psychic spectrum like that, and I put you know Mediumship and kind of a different category in a way. You know, really making that connection to spirit, being able to bring forward what I would say is like validating evidential mediumship components. Um, do you what do you think? Do you think that everybody has both gifts, both abilities? Like I’m just curious what your thoughts are on it.

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, yeah, no, I get asked that question all the time whenever I do a facebook live. Um, the way that I always answer it is the only time I feel this is my belief based on experience. The only time it’s not somebody does not have intuitive or psychic gifts is if it is not part of their current life path or purpose. So someone who is hardcore I don’t believe in it. I think it’s crap. It’s all woo-woo like. Obviously that stuff’s not in their spectrum of. They’re not going to be able to tune in and develop their gifts because they’re not in alignment with that. Yeah, they never will. Great way to phrase it.

Amber Annette:

They never will I said um.

Judi Jamieson:

So the other avenue that I go with, that is, I tell people One of two things if you’re experiencing odd or unexplainable things, the signs and synchronicities, you are gifted. If you have that desire or that calling or you’re intrigued by it, you are gifted. So You’re either into it, you like it, you’re intrigued with it, or you’re absolutely, totally against it. But if you’re experiencing things guess what, that’s spirits, way of trying to get your attention. Now, like they’re knocking on the door. Now it’s up to you whether or not you want to go deeper.

Amber Annette:

Right.

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, and the same thing with are you intrigued by it? Right, like we were saying earlier, I grew up in a household hardcore atheist. There is no god, there’s no life after death. Wow, psychics are all weirdos. Anybody who meditates or collects crystals is wacko. That’s how I grew up, but I I still always had that. I was so intrigued and mesmerized by it and I loved watching all the shows. So there was part there that was already like I don’t feel like I’m quite vibing with what my mom is saying or her beliefs, because that’s her path, not mine. So I kind of went and On my own direction and followed that, versus listening to her, and probably have a completely and totally different life mirroring her life.

Amber Annette:

So how does that work now? I mean because you have an incredible following. You have built a beautiful business on teaching other people how to awaken their gifts and tap into their intuition. How does your family feel about that?

Judi Jamieson:

Um, we don’t really discuss it. No, I mean we don’t. There’s no point in discussing it because they’re they’re non-believers, so I’m not going to try and convert them or prove them wrong or shove anything down their throat. That’s their path and I respect that. Okay, as long as you respect my path. But we really don’t have conversations about it because it’s pointless, it’s going to turn into a debate and get toxic and I don’t want to deal with it, so I just don’t. I will tell you, though what what kind of introduced me into all this spiritual stuff? Um, was my dad, but my dad was not around when I was growing up. Um, they, they got divorced when I was like four or five years old. He moved to the other side of the country. Was no involvement in my upbringing at all, until I was like 11 years old and my mom sat me down and told me your dad Is dying, he’s gay and he has AIDS. So this was back in the 80s, when AIDS just came out and everybody was freaking out and scared, didn’t know anything about it. Um, so they put me on a plane and flew me out to san diego, california, from philadelphia, and the moment I walked into his home, like there was zen music playing, there was crystals on the shelves. It was the most beautiful, surreal, loving, peaceful, like it was a whole new world for me, and he would talk about all kinds of things that At the time, like I just thought you know, because he was going through all different testing and experiments and pain medication and I just thought this guy’s really on some good freaking painkillers because he’s talking about how he leaves his body at night and all like this stuff that I was like whoa, but I, that was my mom’s programming. I’m hearing what he’s telling me and I’m thinking this guy’s on some seriously good freaking drugs, because he’s talking like he’s fucking nuts. Right, I didn’t. I didn’t get any of it. I was too little. I just knew how that whole environment felt and it felt like home to me. For the first time in my life. I felt like I fit and it felt like home. Yeah, so after he died, there was a point in my life where I was faced with a very adult decision, still being in high school, um, and I so desperately wanted to connect with my dad and and all of that lovingness and that healing energy and all everything that embodied him. So I started diving more into like what most people do how to meditate, how to read cards using your pendulums, you know all of that stuff. Uh, so I did that for for quite a while. And then the when I was, when I was like in my early 20s, my last pregnancy. I call her my psychic baby. I don’t know if she flipped the switched or upleveled things. I don’t know what the fuck happened, but all of a sudden I was seeing things when I was wide awake and I was hearing things and I would go to sleep and I would have a dream and I’d wake up and like within like five days, that dream played out to the T in my real life and I was like, holy fuck, what the? It’s a whole other level of just reading your cards, you know like, wow, what the fuck is this? And I didn’t know what to do with it. I didn’t know what to make that. You know what I mean? That’s a whole different level, a whole different level of holy cow. So I went and sought help on what is going on, how to manage it. You know what I needed. I’m not too proud, like some people spiritual people like think they freaking know it all right and nobody knows everything.

Amber Annette:

And how you and me got connected, girl.

Judi Jamieson:

You know, come on now everybody, the learning never stops the growing, the learning, it never ends. So I sought out someone who could help me manage that, navigate it and understand it. That’s a whole other wackiest story, but yeah. So like, okay, well, I’m seeing shit when I’m wide awake, like ETs, like you know. Like okay, now I’m like I used to be one of those people that, even though I read cards and did all that stuff, it was like when I see it, I’ll believe it. Like slap me upside the head, show me this shit is real, like the Hollywood stuff, and that stuff started happening and it just set you on a whole other path of whoa, okay, what do I do now? What?

Amber Annette:

I think it’s so interesting enough. The reason I went and had my first session with the psychic was also my son had just been born and I was seeing his grandfather, who was in spirit, like around my house, and it freaked, I mean like eyes wide open you know In the middle of the night, you know, brand new baby. Like oh my gosh, am I schizophrenic? Like I was terrified, you know, do I need to? Turns out you’re not schizophrenic, you’re just a psychic.

Judi Jamieson:

You know it’s funny, we’re talking about schizophrenic people, I really feel. Tell me what your thoughts are on this. I think a lot of people who are seeing and hearing things, they get misdiagnosed and get sent to a mental hospital when really there’s nothing wrong with them. I agree they just they’re able to tap into on a different level that most society does not they’re tapped into a different dimension. I would say yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean don’t get me wrong.

Amber Annette:

There’s absolutely people that have like serious mental illness, who aren’t able to function, like that’s, I think, different from what we’re talking about, from people that have been labeled with a mental illness or psychosis, who see things, hear things, like yeah, I mean, I’m surprised somebody hasn’t come after me with a white jacket at this point, with a straight jacket at this point. So there are things that I am very open about seeing and hearing at this point. But yeah, I agree with you. I think some of those, some of those diagnoses, definitely come from people being tapped in and not knowing what they’re seeing or why they’re seeing it or why they’re feeling it, and then responding in the way that they do because most likely they don’t have a strong support system or the awareness to dig into why they are. I don’t know about you, but like as soon as I started I mean in my gift that I’ve only been actively in my gift for almost 10 years. It’ll be 10 years this February since I call it my like psychic birthday. You know It’ll be 10 years in February and man, I don’t know, I just it’s hard for me to imagine life like not with this. It’s just and I remember I don’t know if you do, but like that first year for me was shit. I mean the first three months for me. I remember my daughter at the time was she must have been 17 or 18 and I remember looking at her and I was like I was like Aubrey. I have to tell you this because if I don’t say this out loud and this comes true, I’m gonna wish I did and but I keep hearing these numbers and I think that these numbers are the latitude and longitude of like where this plane wreckage is gonna be found. It was like when the Malaysian plane crashed and she was like what? And I was like I’m dead serious, like I’m gonna write it down and I’m putting it in this envelope and when they find the wreckage we’re gonna open it up and I’m telling you it’s the latitude and longitude. Now I don’t even know which way is like north or south, girl, right, okay, so for me to like, out of the blue, come up with like latitude and longitude numbers, like it was like ridiculous, I kid you not Within, like they found some wreckage within I don’t know five to seven days and I like went on Google map at the time type. It was the spot, it was like in the general area of the spot and I was like, oh my gosh, this is real. I was like and my mind instantly went to like everything is real. Hogwarts magic which it like. It was like this whole world showed itself to me where I was, like. No wonder I’ve always loved these like sci-fi and fantasy movies, because it’s real.

Judi Jamieson:

Am I in the matrix? Seriously?

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I mean, I can’t so right now it’s November and I just started watching the X files. Do you remember the show, the X file? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I started watching it from the beginning and I’m like, okay, this is all real. This is all real, this is based on true stories.

Judi Jamieson:

That was with what Scully and Homer, or Humph, molder, molder, okay, yeah.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, so it’s like from the 90s and yeah, so I do. I get it. So like the Hollywood aspects of things, the preconceived and the limiting beliefs about some of this stuff. I love that you and me are so aligned on so much of it because, I mean, sometimes it can feel like you’re kind of in an isolated world as a light leader like this, you know.

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, when you have family or friends who get it or experience it or you know, yeah, yeah, it feels very lonely.

Amber Annette:

I feel incredible with, like the community of women that I have surrounded myself with that, you know, wanna learn and wanna develop and wanna, like you know so most. So you and me work with kind of different people. I tend to work with the psychics and the intuitives that are like I think I’ve got this gift, I wanna go, I wanna start a business from it, you know, and then that brings on it’s a whole other set of limiting beliefs, right?

Judi Jamieson:

Like how to feel good about it, the foster syndrome what are people gonna?

Amber Annette:

say Cargling money for it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Shouldn’t I be giving this away for free? Oh, my goodness. Yeah, oh, don’t you love that?

Judi Jamieson:

When people shit on you, what did you say? Not the Karen’s, what did you call them? Jane, the Jane’s, the Jane’s. When the Jane’s say this is a gift and you should not charge for it, like okay, say my daughter is a gifted carpenter, are you saying she should go build somebody’s house and not charge for her time or her services or her skills, like go suck my dick, whatever, whatever. And I think too many what I can and cannot charge or do, but that’s back to that. Go somewhere else.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, that’s back to that. You know what you can and can’t do. You don’t get to decide. I get to decide for myself. That’s why I created this business. That’s why I stepped into my gift, so that I could be completely sovereign psychic. And I don’t, I just I don’t take, and I but I also I think you’re probably like me I don’t take it on from other people either. I don’t sit and dwell on it. I don’t sit and overthink it and get all up in my head about it. When people wanna have debates or like that Facebook, I really don’t. I’m able to navigate and move on very quickly where I think most people they wanna stay and debate it and argue it, and I don’t. I just that’s just not. I have no space for that in my life. Yeah, no, I agree with you. So I’m curious. I’m always like I don’t think I’ve ever really had another conversation with a psychic that has been so open like this. So a couple of questions for you. What does it feel like for you when you channel? I I don’t know if you get this. So, like I used to do group, so I do group readings. I still like to do group readings and every once in a while I’ll still do like a psychic medium. I haven’t done, I haven’t done one for a while, but every once in a while I do. And I don’t know if you get like this, but I get so much energy ahead of time, I get so worked up, I get like I have so much that already wants to come through. It’s like almost like a physical pain, sometimes Like I will physically feel it, and then as soon as I start to like channel, as soon as the messages start to come out, I feel great, I feel fine and I cannot wait to go do it again until again before the reading the whole thing starts all over again. And that’s one of the reading reasons why I actually stopped doing so many group readings because of how I felt at this like innate anxiety inside of my body before reading. So, I’m curious if you what, what kind of shows up for you?

Judi Jamieson:

Well, when I do channeling, it’s more for myself and my personal life, which is why I teach it, you know, so they could learn how to do this stuff themselves For myself and my personal life. Or if I’m focusing on business stuff, channeling in new content, ideas and next steps, that would most benefit the people you know who found. But I could tell you it’s probably gonna laugh at what I’m gonna say here and I appreciate you telling me in the front that I can say or speak however, just be me, just totally be you. When I am channeling for myself and seeking that, the insight that I need, or the next steps, or the guidance or how to move through something. It feels like the most amazing orgasm. It’s high. It feels like a natural, like I don’t know if you’ve ever done drugs when you’re. I used to be a big drug user when I was younger. The feeling is like a euphoric, tingling, lasting orgasm, although you’re not having an orgasm.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, it’s not a sexual orgasm.

Judi Jamieson:

I call it a business orgasm for myself, actually the natural high, euphoric high that comes out of it and I get the tingling sensation through my entire body and it generally lasts for a good 30 seconds to a minute and it’s like then, all of a sudden, you know, all the downloads come in, yeah, and it’s like holy shit, like I got to get a pen and start mapping it and writing it out. And then I’m like holy cow, the whole map is just laid out in front of me, it’s crystal clear. So that’s like if I’m channeling something for you know, speaking with my guide for big next level what’s next for me?

Amber Annette:

What are we doing?

Judi Jamieson:

And then, if it’s for healing, it’s more of a swoosh like a release, a cleansing, a really good bath, right.

Amber Annette:

I identify with the woosh feeling. Yeah, it’s like yeah.

Judi Jamieson:

So it depends on who who. When I say who you know in that broad spectrum, is it a? What type of guide is it and for what purpose? Depending on who it is that I want to talk to, it gives different sensations.

Amber Annette:

Do you always stop to ask who your guide is?

Judi Jamieson:

I specifically focus on, I assign the guide, so like, if you look at it like college, right, this is how I look at it. If you see, like the grand universe, that big rainbow and within that rainbow you could look at it as a collective or you could look at it like in that rainbow. There’s all different professors who have specific skill sets. So if I’m working on, say, right now I’m focused on my love life, I only want to connect with a guide who specializes in love and romance. If I want to work on healing, right. If I, if I, if I need a healing, I’m not going to go to my accountant, right. I’m going to work with a healer, right. So like, I will specifically zero in if it’s something specific, right. Other than that, I generally roll with the whole universe and whatever one comes through.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I think that’s probably where I like, not that there haven’t been times where I have like a specific guide. I felt like that a lot more in the beginning and I remember that’s like when I thought I was like the craziest, because the very first individual spirit that I ever connected I swear it was like it was like it was the energy of the spirit of Walt Disney and he was showing me how like creative ideas come in and like I mean I just I’m very creative from like a fictional writing. That’s like I could have a whole podcast on like creative ideas I’ve had for like Disney and writing like those, like writing like fantasy, like screenwriting, all the things. It’s like a side passion for me. Anyway, he was like one of the very first guides that I would say I ever connected with on a level of creativity and to this day one of the images that he showed me was a green pen. I love that there was one right here next to me. I see the image of this green pen and now I don’t know if you’re like me, but I kind of feel like I have a psychic library and so anytime I get the image of a green pen for somebody, I know they’re meant to be doing creative writing, I know that’s like, and he was the first one to ever show me that, and so I do so I just I find it fascinating. But I think for me now, where I’m at, it feels like that. I love that like. It feels more like a collective message, right, like I say. I usually just say universe, I’m usually like universe. What would you have me do today? What would you have me create? What would you have me say, what message would you have me share, you know. And then I wait for the feeling, the divine download to come in. Right, really good ones. I call them my, I call my business orgasms. I think I even at one point bought business orgasmcom because to me there is nothing better than a really good freaking idea for your business where you’re like, oh God, yeah, that’s so cool. I can’t take it and go put it out there and create it. I love that, I love that process so much it’s it’s it’s my, it’s my, my favorite. I call it coffee with the universe, so that’s kind of like where my stuff kind of comes in in the mornings. I look at my lake, I have my dog, my kids are gone, it’s quiet, I can be present and I have coffee with the universe and that’s where, like everything for me that’s where I wish I could do that For me.

Judi Jamieson:

It’s always at night. I go to bed Like I have to go to bed with a notepad next to me or I turn my phone because it just like, why can’t do like guys, universe, whatever, why can’t you just come like a normal person who I write it’s it’s nine o’clock in the morning, like why do you have to do this at night? But so I just so, I just roll with it.

Amber Annette:

I also do. The shower is a huge one for me. To me too, it’s not uncommon for my clients to get like a message from me literally in the shower, where I’m like, hey, this just in from the universe, I love that. I got to share this with you because I don’t know, I think it’s those present times, you know, when you can just really get into space, where you’re so open to receive. You know, those are the times that I channel at my best, when I’m just really present. So, yeah, all right. So what else do we got here? What else did I want to? You know, I, I love this conversation. I appreciate you like so much, just from a collaborative perspective here of sharing. You know, I think sometimes it feels like like I was saying a little, maybe a little isolating. You know, all of my best friends, all of my girlfriends, they like my, like human, like in person people like my human in person, people like they don’t always get. You know, they kind of get what I do, but you know not really. So I just want to say thank you so much for coming on and for just being my like, one of my new favorite people in the space, Judi, like I, really enjoyed you being here and hearing your insight and what it feels like for you. I think it’s just such a cool, a cool connection that we made and I’m so grateful for, like our guides putting us together. I think we can do some pretty cool things out there for people.

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, no, I could totally relate to you in the physical, real world people. I have one, one person who is, you know, very much like myself. She doesn’t live in this area, she lives in another state, right, so but I can totally relate to. Yeah, you know, just being able to vibe with someone who’s into the same stuff, yeah, something I find funny. Like, did you ever notice? Did you ever come across people online who were in the spiritual world, who, like look at other people as competition? Oh yeah, like dude, like really like no, we’re all in the same boat together. We can all vibe together, we can all come together as a collective. There is no competition. Like what can I get your? Get your ass out of your ego, or get your ego out of your ass, whatever one it’s in both. Yeah, no, we all work together. All, let’s all collaborate. Let’s all get together as a big collective. And what is the ultimate goal? The spread the love, the light, the happiness, the healing, whatever it is that you need Right.

Amber Annette:

I think I felt that a lot more early on, especially in, like, the entrepreneurial space, you know, in the online space, social media, and where I have like a little bit of a presence in social media, it’s just not where I spend the majority of my time. The majority of my time is like with my email community and then my actual, like you know, containers that I have people in, and so I think for me, eliminating those distractions of like you can’t just sit there and scroll, I mean that’s gonna that’s gonna kick up imposter syndrome, I don’t give a shit how strong you are in your, in your you know, when you start, when you start seeing it over and over again. So I just I kind of stare clear of most of that kind of stuff and I teach my, I teach, you know, my women that I work with to like I should inspire you, you know, and if it does trigger you, the trigger is meant to inspire you that if that’s possible for her, it’s possible for you to and leave it at that. Yeah, you know, not that she’s better, not that she’s worth more, or why her not? You like that’s when that spiral can take you down the wrong kind of rabbit hole. We want a rabbit hole that’s going to lead us to wonderland, you know not, not to. You know self pity and self worth issues, and I mean it can. It’s an interesting space that can provide so much healing and guidance and comfort and clarity and at the same time make you question and doubt yourself so much. You know it really does. It’s double-edged sword sometimes, and I think it’s. It’s. I don’t think that doing this type of work is for the faint of heart.

Judi Jamieson:

I mean, it’s definitely not. I agree with you.

Amber Annette:

It’s not the ease. This is, you know. I’ve said on here before, like following your intuition and being in your gift is not the easy path. It sounds glorious, it sounds glamorous, but it is not the easier path of the two. If you’re faced with two, you know.

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, I tell people all the time because, like, I live on social media. That’s like my home.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I saw that you do. You have a huge following. That’s amazing.

Judi Jamieson:

And I tell people all the time that your intuition right, whether you’re focused on intuition development or psychic development, both of them are going to push you out of your comfort zone. Get used to facing your fears, which essentially you know it’s your ego. Get used to facing those fears, cause if you want real change in your life, you got to get used to facing fears and overcoming them. If you want to go to new levels, experience new blessings, grow all things fucking wonderful, right, just you’re in, you will be challenged, but then you have this wonderful thing called free will. You could not listen to it and stay where you are and continue to bitch and complain and wallow in whatever you’re wallowing, or listen to that guidance that’s pushing you a little bit out of your comfort zone and then watch the magic happen.

Amber Annette:

So yeah, it’s constantly constantly and it’s worth it, I think, for anybody listening to, like man following the little psychic white rabbit since we’re talking about Alice in Wonderland, you know, following those like man, I’m really cute, you know the curiosities, you know I’m really curious about crystals or I’m really curious about tarot cards. Like, follow those curiosities. It’s so worth it, you know, and it’s even the tough times, even facing like some inner demons and like going through up levels, and you know I mean there’s hard aspects of it, but it’s worth it.

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, there’s one thing I would do differently.

Amber Annette:

It’s worth it.

Judi Jamieson:

Absolutely.

Amber Annette:

All right. Well, let’s tap in. So, in true the business psychic fashion, I’m going to kind of see what I can sense and pick up here. It’s a good time, since we’re coming at the end of 2023. Okay, so the first thing and I feel like I’ve seen this for you before I get two things. Number one I get the desert. I get like I don’t know if you have something planned for Arizona, santa Fe, but that area is calling to you and I’m really gonna my like physical heart, I can like feel it in my physical heart for you. You are really meant to start doing some in-person spiritual experiences for people. I know. Earlier in this episode, I use the word activation, but I mean, I just feel like it’s time for you to like shake it up a little bit inside of what you’ve been doing, keep doing exactly what you’re doing and let’s add some additional services, one of them being an in-person like healing and spiritual retreat Handstone. It’s time. It just it is. It’s time. Number two is, again, I feel like this is something we, but it’s coming through even stronger this time. You really need to get a team around you so that you can like I would say even like I feel like you could 10X your business this year. I know I can. I need a team. I know this. I really do. Like they’re showing me like this is the year you could 10X. You have to relax and release some of your control. I feel like that’s kind of your thing. You like to like control it all. You like to know, you know that you do it right, so you don’t want anybody else touching your shit. Girl, that is not the way it is, like it is not serving you. It’s just not. It has served you up until now. Congratulations, well done. It’s not gonna serve you going forward. We’ve got to build a team for you, and not just a spirit guide team, which is strong and beautiful, but an in-. It’s a goal to be Like a human team for your business to take care of some of the tasks and things that you’re doing. Yeah, what else do I have here? I feel like it’ll be doing the same things you’re doing in 2024 already, but just at a like another level where you’re just gonna get to do more of what you love to do. The one thing that I would say, that is like showing up, and I know that maybe this will make more sense to you. It’s not something that I’m familiar with, but I’m seeing like all these like micro, mini, like paid messages, micro and mini paid messages. I don’t know if these are like guided journeys or meditations or, but they’re like micro bite size. I would say like between one to $7, but, holy shit, do they take off Like I literally feel like a million people could buy these things at like a dollar a piece. Anything about so? I don’t know if anything about that. Yeah, that makes no sense.

Judi Jamieson:

Something you’re working on? Yeah, absolutely yeah. I’m kind of going through and revamping a lot of my funnels Cause, like I know, you know, not everybody’s in the same affordability range, so I try really hard to create things that anybody can afford. That, will you know, give them some value. So I am working on some lower price point tidbit things. That is definitely in the works.

Amber Annette:

I also feel like, if you don’t already have it, a new deck of cards is about to come through you in.

Judi Jamieson:

March. I just bought an online training on how to create and publish your seven cards.

Amber Annette:

Yeah, I feel like it’s going to be done and published by March. Ooh, that fast, all right, yeah, cause it’s going to come in in the whoosh Like it’s just going to where you’re going to get stuck. The most is on is on some of the fine, the fine details get you stuck. That’s where, oh my gosh, I should just do it. Oh yeah, yeah, that’s, that’s girl. 10x this is your year at a 10X, Reminds me of Grant Cardone.

Judi Jamieson:

Did you ever hear of him?

Amber Annette:

Oh yeah, oh yeah, grant.

Judi Jamieson:

Cardone and his 10X thing. Yeah, one of his classes too. That’s me Like I’m constantly taking classes.

Amber Annette:

Oh, like all business stuff, you know.

Judi Jamieson:

Yeah, that’s how you grow, Absolutely. But yeah, everything you said makes total sense, makes total sense.

Amber Annette:

Well, I’m excited to see you bring it all to the world. Yay, well, this is so weird.

Judi Jamieson:

I feel like it’s been so long since like I got a reading that I forgot like the excitement, like ooh, now I’m kind of feeling bad that I don’t do readings no more, cause that was real exciting for me. Thank you. Don’t feel bad, but see, I know like you know, I’m listening to what you’re saying and I’m wholeheartedly taking it and I am going to apply it Absolutely. That’s the difference. You know what I mean. But oh, I love taking.

Amber Annette:

I love taking. I love taking. That’s why I got into the coaching side of it is everything that would come to me and through me. I was so excited for them and I was like now let’s go do it. Now, let’s take this reading and now let me coach you how to like create all of this, that’s like. That’s when I fell in love with coaching and blending the two worlds, because that’s where most people staff themselves is they get the reading but then they don’t take the action to make that reading a pass. You know, actually come true. So I know you’re gonna.

Judi Jamieson:

It’s this fear.

Amber Annette:

I know we’re gonna see big things out of you this year in 10X and you’re gonna come back and tell us all about it Awesome, yeah. Well, Judi this was amazing. Thank you for being here. My heart is filled it’s connecting with you.

Judi Jamieson:

You as an individual, you’re a beautiful soul, absolutely.

Amber Annette:

Thank you, I feel the same way about you. All right, well, until next time, make sure you go check out today’s show. Now it’s me and Judi have some amazing links for you there to go get all kinds of good freebies. And until next time, go be in your gifts, go be in your magic and be the good, be the light. See you next week. Thanks for listening to this episode. I hope it inspired and ignited your entrepreneurial spirit and turned up your intuition and trust in the universe. Make sure to check out the show notes section for access to my transformation suite All of free resources, tools and content to help you grow your business while staying true to your soul’s purpose. Until next week, go make some business magic, soul sister. Thanks for listening to this episode.

Judi Jamieson

Judi Jamieson

Empath, Psychic, and Modern-day Witch

I teach intuition and psychic development so you can apply your gifts in every area of your life to not only create but live an amazing life. Whatever that may be for you. Fully utilizing the true power of your gifts is not just for when the shit hits the fan or you are curious about something, it’s a way of life always being plugged in and getting the healing, insight, guidance, and next steps without having to meditate or use various tools.

My teaching style is straight to the point without all the time-wasting bologna and fluff… with a loving soul-sister ass-kicking in the mix.

You are not here to live a mediocre life, you are here to live an amazing one that is in alignment with your path and purpose…. not what others molded or wanted you to be.

You can also find me on YouTube.

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Breaking Free from Decision Fatigue

Breaking Free from Decision Fatigue

In a world that often demands women to operate in both their personal and professional lives with unwavering strength, the epidemic of decision fatigue has become a silent struggle. The constant need to tap into our masculine energy for day-to-day, short-term, and long-term decisions, be it in family matters or business endeavors, can be overwhelming.

After working with thousands of women, these are the 7 common signs I see as a life and business coach-

  1. Procrastination: Decision fatigue can manifest as procrastination, where even seemingly simple choices become daunting. This delay in decision-making can hinder progress and create a sense of stagnation in both personal and business matters, especially for a spiritual woman who is motivated by energy and follows her intuition.
  2. Overthinking: Constantly mulling over decisions, especially minor ones, is a clear sign of decision fatigue. This mental loop can drain energy and focus, preventing you from fully engaging in your spiritual and entrepreneurial pursuits, not to mention deflate your confidence.
  3. Impaired Judgment: As decision fatigue sets in, the quality of decision-making may decline. This could lead to poor choices, whether in business strategies, spiritual practices, or personal life, potentially impacting your overall well-being. In fact, I recently experienced this myself when I made a bad judgment call in messenger and got scammed out of $400 👎
  4. Increased Stress and Anxiety: The weight of unresolved decisions, and decision overload, can contribute to heightened stress and anxiety levels. For a spiritual woman in business, this may interfere with keeping up on your own spiritual practices, like meditation or journaling, not taking inspired action, lack of sales and marketing activities and other areas of needed focus in her day to day. Not to mention it can literally cause so many physical symptoms of anxiety like heart palpitations, insomnia, headaches and full on panic attacks.
  5. Physical Fatigue: Decision fatigue doesn’t only affect the mind; it can manifest physically, beyond stress and anxiety symptoms, leading to exhaustion and total burnout. This physical (and emotional) weariness can limit a woman’s ability to fully bring her best self to her family, friends, business and most importantly, herself. 
  6. Reduced Creativity: Decision fatigue is the quickest way to cripple creativity. As a spiritual woman in business you may find it challenging to tap into your innovative and intuitive gifts, impacting your ability to bring fresh ideas and perspectives to your entrepreneurial pursuits.
  7. Strained Relationships: The impact of decision fatigue often has a huge impact on our  personal relationships. I know this all too well, I personally attribute this as a key factor in my divorce. You may experience strained personal connections due to the mental and emotional toll of constant decision-making, affecting your ability to even communicate. Sometimes even replying to a simple text message can feel overwhelming and cause a “shut down“.

Being a spiritual woman in business requires the right flow of the masculine and feminine energies. Decision fatigue can disrupt this flow, making it crucial to recognize these signs.

This may involve prioritizing decisions, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support to maintain a healthy and sustainable lifestyle.

The good news is that there’s a transformative way to overcome decision fatigue, and it begins with the power of clarity. 

This seven-step journey to regain control and step into a space where decisions become doorways to possibilities and new realities.

The Clarity Formula: A Seven-Step Path to Serene

C – Center Yourself

Begin by centering yourself amidst the chaos. Whether it’s the demands of daily life or the intricacies of business decisions, take a moment to breathe. Ground yourself in the present and reconnect with your inner wisdom. A calm mind is the foundation for sound decision-making. And you can overcome decision fatigue one decision at a time.

L – List Your Priorities

Create a simple list of your highest priorities for the day. Identify what truly matters to you in both your life and business. I don’t let my list get bigger than a post it note. This step is crucial in understanding where to direct your energy and focus. Let your priorities guide your decisions.

A – Assess Your Options

With priorities in mind, assess the options available to you. Break down decisions into manageable choices. By considering alternatives, you empower yourself with a broader perspective, making it easier to discern the most aligned path.

R – Reflect on Values

Reflect on your core values. Your decisions should align with these values to create a serene and clear life and business. When your choices resonate with what truly matters to you, your why, the mental fatigue associated with decision-making diminishes.

 I – Integrate Self-Care

The most important question and decision you can make is asking yourself “what do I need in this moment?” And then, be brave enough to give it to yourself. Integrate self-care into your decision-making process. Remember that your well-being is paramount. Nurture your mind, body, and spirit, ensuring you’re in the best possible state to tackle life and business complexities.

T – Trust Your Intuition

Trust your intuition. Your inner-knowing, it is your greatest gift and your greatest weapon to fend off decision fatigue. Your intuition knows the right direction before your logical mind catches up. Embrace the wisdom within, allowing it to guide your decisions with a sense of confidence and assurance.

Y – Yield and Evolve

Be willing to yield and evolve. Recognize that decisions aren’t set in stone. Life and business are dynamic, and the ability to adapt is a strength. Embrace change as an opportunity for growth and true transformation.

As we navigate the journey to overcome decision fatigue, I invite you to share your experiences with me. 

What aspect of decision fatigue resonates most with you? Is it the day-to-day choices, short-term decisions, or perhaps the complexities within your family or business? 

Your insights are not only valuable to you but can also inspire others on their path to clarity.

Remember, you should never feel stuck in making a decision. Instead, view decisions as the keys unlocking doorways to endless possibilities and new realities. 

By embracing the Clarity Formula, you reclaim your power and shape a life and business that aligns with your truest self.

Share your thoughts in the comments below. Your story may be the catalyst for someone else’s breakthrough. 

Here’s to clarity, empowerment, and the limitless potential within you! 

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Chapter 2 – You Already Know Your Path

Chapter 2 – You Already Know Your Path

What if destiny is not predetermined but rather a series of choices that you get to make? Join your host, Amber Annette, as she continues her enchanting journey through her book, ‘You Already Know’, tackling the second chapter, ‘You Already Know Your Path’. Amber takes you through a thought-provoking exploration of our life’s path, challenging the traditional notion of destiny and urging you to claim your desires.

Brace yourself as Amber shares profound insights on the importance of trusting in oneself and learning to say ‘yes’ to change. Borrowing from her clients’ experiences, she offers a fresh perspective on the seemingly delayed steps towards our desires and the ignored warning signs from the universe. This episode will remind you that what may seem like a delay is actually a slingshot towards your desire. Get ready to explore your path, ask yourself the grounding questions – What do you trust in this moment? What can you ground yourself into? – and ultimately, know your way forward.

 

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Amber Annette:

Welcome to the Business Psychic Podcast, the show that helps you ignite your soul’s purpose, turn up your creativity and activate sales and marketing magic. I’m your host, amber Annette, and I’m thrilled to be here with you today to explore the depth of what it means to be a woman in business. I believe that business is more than just making money. It’s about making a difference and making your mark. So sit back, get present and let’s dive in and uncover the secrets to building a business with soul, purpose and magic. Welcome back to another episode of the Business Psychic, or should I say welcome back to another chapter of. You Already Know. So if you tuned in with me on the last episode that I did, you will know that I’m starting to read to you my book that I have been writing for the past year, because I’m really stuck on completing it and finishing it. So I’m hoping, by knowing I have my audience and my fans and my listeners tuning in, man, it is going to start a spark in me to complete this bad boy, because there’s just such good stuff inside of here. It’s got to be shared with the world. So if you haven’t listened to the first episode it’s the last one that just came out. You’re going to want to start there, because I read the first chapter of my book called you Already Know, and the first chapter is you already know your purpose, and so I’m going to just dive in here to what will be chapter two. You already know your path. What if there’s no such thing as destiny? Kind of a buzzkill, isn’t it? There’s something glamorous about fantasizing about fate and our life being predetermined, or is there, isn’t it more empowering to know that in this moment is when you get to choose your destiny, you get to create your fate, and that creation comes from you, claiming the wants that are within you that you have most likely silenced. With how Each want and desire creates a fork in the road moment, each decision opens up a new path. I’ve come to think of that path more like a series of doors leading to different outcomes, worlds and experiences, almost like in Monsters Inc if you’ve ever seen that movie. Each door allows you to become who you came here to be and what you wanted to experience, but you have to be brave to leave behind what is not meant to go through to the two. Oh, okay, again now, remember, I am reading this from a notebook, okay, and I’m reading my own damn handwriting and I can’t even read this part. This is not something typed up, this is like hardcore straight from a notebook that I am channeling. So I’m gonna read this one more time because I’m also gonna need to edit it. But you have to be brave to leave behind what is not meant to go through the new doorways, man. I’m gonna read that line again. But you have to be brave to leave behind what is not meant to go through the new doorways. Sometimes that is people, sometimes that is aspects of who you are, and sometimes it is the past wants and desires that no longer serve you. New pathways, often equal saying goodbye. There’s no reverse and there’s no U-turns on the path. There’s only a series of choices that create your next road trip. There’s an unsettling truth to the phase all good things must come to an end. It insinuates good doesn’t last, but bad does. And here’s the sole truth All things must come to an end so that new growth and expansion can come forward to you on your path. Saying yes to change creates new worlds. Saying yes to transformation gives you the most freedom. There is no path. There is only one step and one decision at a time, and the sole truth is that what you’re really seeking isn’t a path at all, but a vision, a knowing that where you are headed is going to give you harmony. But the only way to truly be in a state of harmony, the only way to be able to appreciate peace, is after facing and overcoming the challenges and conflict that this life is meant to give us. So the question isn’t am I on the right path? The question that I invite you is to be asking yourself what path do I want to create today? Sometimes the universe puts do not proceed signs on our path and even though these signs are pretty clear, we are pretty clever human beings and will find ways to sneak by, even though the sign from the universe is pretty damn clear. How many times have you not obeyed the warning signs? How many times did you ignore the red flags from your place of knowing and convince yourself you were just wrong? How many times did you turn right, knowing it was not right for you and you should have turned? Left these lessons. They hurt, they sting and they knock us on our ass. But just remember you have the power to see them for what they are Growing your knowing opportunities. I once had a client say to me I’m too trusting of others and I always get burned. I listened presently and then I said to her my love, you aren’t too trusting of others, you aren’t trusting enough of yourself and your inner knowing. And we both, in that moment, felt the power and magic come through in that statement, and now I’m passing that on to you. To truly know is to deeply trust, and there’s no stronger bond than that in any relationship that you will ever have with other people, with the universe and, most importantly, with yourself. Trust that the path that you’re on and that you’re being guided every step of the way by your inner knowing. There’s going to be detours and there’s going to be speed bumps. Those are intentionally placed there by the universe and even if you can’t see it, what seems like a delay is actually a slingshot towards your desire. The universe knows what it’s doing. Trust the path, open the doors and know your way forward. In this chapter, I leave you with the questions what do you trust in this moment? What can you ground yourself into? Hmm, okay, short, sweet, nice, bite-sized chapters. What are you thinking here? I hope you’re loving it. You’re holding me to the fire and we’re going to get there, I feel it. I’m going to finish this book for you and I just want you to know how much I appreciate you being on my path All right until the next chapter. I’m Amber Annette. Thanks for listening to this episode. I hope it inspired and ignited your entrepreneurial spirit and turned up your intuition and trust in the universe. Make sure to check out the show notes section for access to my transformation suite. Oh, free resources, tools and content to help you grow your business while staying true to your soul’s purpose. Until next week, go make some business magic Soul sister.

 

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