I don’t even recognize the person on the left, and yet that was me 10 years ago.
And while I’ve lost some weight, went from brunette to blonde, (thank goddess🤦🏼♀️), have had another child since then, and turned the big 4.0, something even more changed for me…I uncovered and claimed my soul purpose.
And as I sit here waiting for my kiddo at baseball, I can’t help but stare and reflect at this picture and dig deep into why and how I’m feeling and looking younger now than ever before. Here’s my list of reasons. I truly hope it sparks you to find your purpose and pursue it everyday:
1. There’s less stress.
When you’re aligned with your soul purpose, life naturally starts to be filled with more love, light, play and curiosity. New doors start to open and fresh ideas give a pathway towards a bigger vision. With all of the new magic in your life, you will start to intuitively steer clear, (and the Universe will help), of the events and circumstances that cause you stress. Being on soul purpose doesn’t necessarily mean life is perfect, but it is a hell of a lot easier!
2. You’re more confident which equals radiance.
I have never been so sure and so certain as I am right now in my life. Being on soul purpose has given me the strength and conviction that I need to chase after wild dreams, and to run away from what doesn’t turn me on and light me up. I feel clear in making decisions, and on soul fire with the direction I’m going. I see it when I look in the mirror, and I feel it when I walk in a room. And I’m owning every bit of it.
3. You have more space and time to do as you please.
Being on soul purpose has made me incredibly selfish when it comes to what and who I spend my time with. Time is the one thing that you don’t get back, and you can’t buy more of. It’s the one thing that you get one shot with, so I’m super intentional about what I do with my time. I know if I want to make my mark, I have to make it count.
4. You sleep better.
Before I really stepped into my soul purpose I had anxiety so terrible that I was on a variety of different prescription drugs. And while the meds numbed the anxiousness, they also numbed my gifts and my intuition. It was like living life on auto pilot, not on soul purpose. But now, even though I occasionally have some anxiety, I don’t have to take meds to fall asleep into a deep sleep. Now if I toss and turn, it’s just because I have a really good idea and I’m fighting getting up to write it down, (because I know I’ll forget it if I don’t.) It’s not from over stressing and overthinking. And of course the bonus is if you’re sleeping better, you naturally look rejuvenated and refreshed each morning.
5. There’s more money.
Maybe it’s because I’m more mindful in general, so there’s less excessive spending, or maybe it’s because being on soul purpose has allowed me to make more profit, either way my bank account has never been happier. And the truth of it is that when you’re working with the law of attraction you’re naturally going to manifest more of what you love. And I’ve learned to love money and what it allows me and my family to have and experience.
6. There’s more sex.
Let me rephrase…there’s more really good sex. And who doesn’t want that? It’s truly connected to reason number 2, confidence. The more confident I feel in my soul, it follows over to my body, which leads me to say yes a hell of a lot more than ever before. Plus, my relationship with my husband is stronger and deeper than ever before, which naturally makes me more attracted to him.
7. I’m taking better care of my physical body.
I want to feel rich and nourished. I’m working my way towards being a vegan. I bought a Peloton to strengthen my body and increase my endurance. It’s so much more than self-care and working out, for me, it’s soul care at its finest.
8. When boundaries are in place the negative people fall away.
It’s amazing how being on soul purpose makes your boundaries really big right along with your heart. I often say “big boundaries don’t make you a big bitch” and I wholeheartedly mean that. In fact, boundaries actually make me not be a bitch, because when I don’t honor how I’m feeling and I do it because I “have to”, or because it’s the right thing to do, or it’s what’s expected of me, it never works out for anybody. I truly only want to do what is calling to my soul. When I honor that, I’m the best version of me, which is best for everyone.
9. You don’t sweat the small stuff.
I’m so done and over caring about the details. Ain’t nobody got time for that. I just want to get to the good part. And I love that I’m not constantly overthinking the little piddly shit that just doesn’t matter. At the end of the day what matters to me is how high did I get? And I’m not talking about artificial or drug induced high, I’m talking about how much fun and love did I receive and give in my world for that day? Your purpose helps you see what’s most important everyday.
10. Life orgasms are normal.
I want days that are filled with laughing so hard my stomach hurts and smiling so much my cheeks hurt. I want to have rich relationships that are full of giving and receiving. I want to soak it ALL up in my soul. I wanna feel all this life has to give by being as present as possible. Being on soul purpose is always showing me how to do that.
11. You know and see yourself at a soul level.
I love being with me. And I love getting to know myself more and more everyday. Don’t get me wrong, I love my life with my husband, kids, friends and family. But I’m living for me. It’s not selfish to put yourself and your soul purpose first, it’s actually your biggest purpose of all. Because when you do that is when everyone will see you at your truest and highest level, and you will get to be that for them. It inspires others to look inside themselves and pulls the right people closer to you.
I feel so grateful that I found my soul purpose at such a young age, helping others find their purpose. Most times, that means helping them manifest a life and business that they are truly in love with. And that means together, we can turn your life’s contrast into life’s expansion and celebration for you.
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